Do you personally know any masculine gay men?

I know a fair amount of gay guys (my own friends and my parents' friends), and I can only think of one whose sexuality totally surprised me. Most of them are masculine to some extent, but are still obviously gay, at least for me.

 

Just me.

 

I don't know many gay people. There's one guy who I know quite well, I know he's bi/gay but although he isn't very feminine, it's quite clear he isn't straight. Then there's some other gay guys of who I wasn't surprised to hear they were gay. Oh and one lesbian girl, but it again was no surprise to me when I heard about it.

Then there's my ex boyfriend, he seems straight, but then again he claims to be straight now anyway.

I do know some bi girls who could pass as straight.

 

Um, no. Not as "masculine" as me.

 

No lol.
will get back to you if I know any

 

I only know one, unfortunately. I say unfortunately because as a Pansexual I'm only attracted to other men who are masculine.

Now, I think my understanding of masculine is different than everyone else's. I mean NOT flamboyant and queeny. I mean dresses in men's clothing and doesn't speak with a high pitch voice and wear makeup. I do not mean watches football, dopey sounding meathead, frat boy voice-type of masculine.

I don't like sports at all and have almost no interest in cars. I can kill it to some Beyonce and I love shopping. What I don't do is regularly express a feminine tone of voice and vibe or speak 16 octaves higher than I'm supposed to. I also don't snap my fingers every seconds and sway my hips when I walk.

For some reason men like this are not very present in the gay community as often as the extremely flamboyant and queeny gays are. I wonder why this is.

 

The boy I used to have a crush on. He grew up to be very masculine and even hotter! I haven't talked to him or seen him in a billion years so, I don't know what his mannerisms are like or how his voice sounds. But appearance wise, you'd never been able to tell. He looks like he would be very muscular underneath his clothing, he's got facial hair, and his hair is very short.

 

Yes, my ex-boyfriend was masculine

 

Yep

 

I know lots of them, including myself that don't present as feminine, but everyone has feminine qualities, gay or straight, as they do masculine qualities. By the way, the more uber-masculine you act, the more I'm inclined to think you're gay. Just saying.

 

They are the only ones picking on me flirting with me and chasing me around town
Also yes i know 30 years old guy who asked me out and i rejected him but still friends

 

I'm dating one. I am one.

 

I consider myself to be Masculine , but I have met many Masculine guys , If I'm correct A Feminine Male is considered to be called Genderqueer ?

 

There was one at my old school

 

I know two gay men very well and both are very effeminate.

 

No, but I''ll update you if this one masculine guy at my school comes out. His family is super religious, so he probably wouldn't be coming out any time soon anyway.

 

Sure do. I've had a lot of people surprise me with their sexuality, because although I try my hardest not to do so, stereotyping is a thing. I've also known a fair number of straight guys who act very feminine.

 

Just me.

 

No I don't.

But I know plenty of masculine lesbians...