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  1. ElleABea liked Jakebusman's post in the thread Accepting myself at 40 and how to start living.

    It was hard for me to finally accept myself never to old or to late to accept and discover yourself

    Apr 13, 2024 at 9:06 PM
  2. ElleABea liked Contented's post in the thread Accepting myself at 40 and how to start living.

    I think you will find that coming to terms with your true sexuality is independent of your age. All our lives and struggles are...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 9:06 PM
  3. ElleABea liked tearingtherose's post in the thread Accepting myself at 40 and how to start living.

    Welcome to EC! I fought my sexuality for much of my life for the same reasons, and at 42 last summer, I finally accepted I'm gay. This...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 9:06 PM
  4. Chillton liked Chip's post in the thread Was in the hospital with Covid.

    I got Covid for the first time in January, and I'm not a youngster either, nor in perfect health. But for whatever reason, I lucked...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 9:04 PM
  5. Chillton replied to the thread Was in the hospital with Covid.

    I wasn't in the hospital but I've had COVID 4 times in the past. One time was especially bad and I felt off for 2 months after and...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 9:04 PM
  6. Chillton liked tallslenderguy's post in the thread Feel creepy for having a crush.

    i don't think there is anything creepy about your feelings/desires/needs. i think it only becomes creepy if you push those on someone...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 8:52 PM
  7. Chillton replied to the thread Feel creepy for having a crush.

    I get what you're driving at. In the past many girls have told me and many men that we were creepy for flirting, talking, or simply...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 8:52 PM
  8. Chip replied to the thread Therapy duration - shower thoughts.

    If you are going every 2-4 months, you aren't dependent. Nor are you wasting her time. Therapy is an individual experience for each...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 8:26 PM
  9. Chip replied to the thread Therapy.

    One of the challenge with finding a therapist is that, unlike going to see, say, an orthopedic doctor, there is no standard way that...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 8:21 PM
  10. Chip replied to the thread Gay in private but "Straight" in public.

    What you are describing doesn't remotely sound like someone who is straight, nor, particularly, someone who is bi. It sounds like...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 8:13 PM
  11. Chillton liked tallslenderguy's post in the thread (Do I have to) Say Goodbye to a Heterosexual Life.

    Ditto Chillton. If one subscribes to the spectrum theory of human sexuality, there are infinite variations... and i tend to think of...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 8:10 PM
  12. Chip replied to the thread Please help me.

    One of the keys is that you are fantasizing about men when you are with a woman. That is a pretty common experience with people who...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 8:09 PM
  13. Chillton liked tallslenderguy's post in the thread Climbing out of the hole I dug myself.

    i came out of a culty sort of religious background, so tend to shy away from strictly defined 'spirit in the sky' paradigms. That...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 8:08 PM
  14. Chillton liked SnowAvoidant's post in the thread Climbing out of the hole I dug myself.

    Thanks, Quebec. I appreciate your kind words and warm welcome very much. I should have posted first in the welcome area, but I have just...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 8:04 PM
  15. Chillton liked quebec's post in the thread Climbing out of the hole I dug myself.

    SnowAvoidant.....You're certainly welcome! :old_smile: I hope EC can help you as much or more now than we did in the past. .....David...

    Apr 13, 2024 at 8:04 PM
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