I'm glad to hear that others have taken a long time as well. I just started to come out to myself a bit less than a year ago, and I'm still trying...
Ugh, this is driving me up the wall too. I really want to start getting out there and I've been to a couple of meet-up type events, but I'm still...
Yep, I'm much better now that it has been about a year since I started to accept myself. However, I still sometimes feel like a fraud and wonder...
I've thought about this too. I'm 43 and still coming out and still have yet to have a sexual relationship with a woman. I suppose it is something...
I'm impatient and still feeling tentative. While I am definitely in a better place with the help of some therapy and loving friends, the fact...
I'm still trying to find it. I'm not really into the whole club scene and while I have attended one meet-up, there doesn't seem to be a way yet...
Up until recently, I've only spoken freely with my therapist and have had a few halting conversations with family, but we don't really talk about...
Someone is angry, hurt and doing mean and vengeful things because he is angry and hurt, even if he doesn't see it. I'm sorry.
I'm struggling with the shame of having buried it for so long to the point where I still wonder if I'm making it all up as I've never acted on it....
So I finally went to a meet-up locally because I'm sick of making excuses to my therapist about why I haven't. It was just playing board games and...
If it's the right person, a bit of butt groping isn't a bad thing ;). I get where you are coming from though.
Thanks everyone. I keep struggling with this weird feeling that what I'm feeling isn't real. That I'm somehow making it up because I'm bored or...
I had both, but most of my dreams that have involved men have not been particularly pleasant or consensual, my dreams with women have been...
Thanks for the recommendation. I think I'm about ready for that now too.
After I made this post I had a rather explicit and sexual dream that obviously dealt with the myriad personal reservations I have and also...
So I started coming out to myself at the beginning of the summer and have had a few halting conversations with some people close to me who were...
One reason I'm still doubting is simply that I've not had a chance to explore or express what it is in my head. I feel like if I could, then I'd...
I'm trying to figure this out as well. I'm single (thankfully as it would be rougher if I started to figure this stuff out while in a...
The panic has largely worn off with me. I still need to find my way to meeting like-minded women, but I feel some freedom in telling a few people...
Thanks for posting. I'm in the questioning phase simply because the opportunity to act has not presented itself. I'm struggling with the whole...
