I haven't been around in a while, but I am still struggling with whether I'm bi or a lesbian. :bang::bang::bang::bang: I have started to see a...
I never said he was 'the one'. I knew that we weren't emotionally connected and that there wasn't a ton of chemistry there. But I thought that the...
I told my husband a couple of months ago that I was feeling like I might be a lesbian. I'm going to counseling now to try to figure everything out...
Am I allowed to mention other threads? I started one called 'Hetero sex if you're gay/lesbian' and would love more insight from people who have...
I guess my story is a bit strange because I hit Vagtown and went back to Wienerland. This might be kind of TMI but telling these details might...
Hi. I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian but I'm hung up on something. I always thought lesbians or gay guys never had hetero sex, or did once and went...
So not to hijack the thread, but are you saying it is possible to have a good sex life with a spouse but still be gay? It's one of the things I'm...
I am coming out to my husband this weekend. For me it helped to separate my relationship with him and my sexuality. I still think there is a...
Fallingdown, that actually makes a lot of sense to me too. Maybe it's more difficult for me to understand because I think I'm demisexual. I don't...
This is bothering me. Isn't sexual orientation about more than sex? Isn't it about who you can love and be intimate with and romantic with too?...
I wanted to add something else. I was experiencing a lot of anxiety around whether I would leave my husband or not and I wasn't able to fully...
Is this true? Can a gay person (man or woman) enjoy sex with someone of the opposite sex? How could that be? And isn't all sex physical...
I remember feeling chemistry with one of my ex boyfriends. But I don't know if that means that I just didn't date the guys I was attracted to or...
I'm still here - for some reason I wasn't getting the updates. We went away for a vacation and my husband and I got along ok, but I did tell a...
Ok, so I have been trying to figure this out for a while now and I'm a little bit stuck. So I'd like to get the input of the group. Based on this...
I could have written this post. I've set up childcare so that I can come out to my husband this Saturday, but I'm having doubts and very scared....
Can I give updates here? Today I wrote down some things that I've been thinking about, and I also wrote down some stuff in my past that I...
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. My parents went to Kansas State and they both grew up in Kansas. My grandparents are KU Jayhawks through and...
Hey Firegirl39, welcome! I would start your own thread to ask your question, that way more people will see it. :smilewave
For me, choosing a label (bisexual, lesbian, queer, etc.) is part of figuring out who I am as a person and also figure out my attractions to...
