spill it: your fist sexual experience with the same gender

I haven't either and I'm WAY older than you

I've kissed a dude though.

 

Never had one yet. I know, really sad :dry: :icon_sad: :eusa_doh:

 

Oooooooooooooooh! That's so cute! Lucky!

 

Well my first ever experience didn't include kissing or anything slightly very romantic at all. At that time I my self refused to even think that I am gay. It happened while I was sleeping over at my best friend's house in like grade 6.

His mom send us to bath together, typically most SA folks send the boys to take baths together to save on water. So i did know what he (Jacques) looked like naked and he me too. It wasn't uncommon for me and neither for him. But this day during the day we were like kick boxing in the back yard, his folks were at work. And at one stage, out of the blue he asked me if I knew what seamen was or how it looked. me being usually far behind in those days thought of actual guys on sea and i told him so.

he took me to the outside house where his father dables with the art of engraving leather. In there he took off his pants and i started to get kinda exciting. Not long he was hard and asked me to help him jack off, then he'll show me what seamen really looked like. Afterwards he asked me if he can do the same for me, cause he wanted to know if every guy's seamen looked the same. I was kinds shy about that so he sort of forced it, but i did liked it.

All through my life afterwards, like 10 or so times until I graduated from school I had similar experience, just touching and wanking...

But my first "sort of romantic" experience was with my best friend. Michael. We were like friends for 8 years then. We did like everything together, we knew everything about one another. The one day he introduced me to extacy (we usually just smoked weed together). We were at his mom's house, his mom went to bet by the time we took it.

We played some trance music and I was at that time saying at his place for two months while I waited for my flat to get finished renovated before i could move in. The thing about extacy is that it makes your body hot all over, so we started to undress down to our briefs. We danced together, gave one another messages to get rid of the tensions.

At some point in time I asked him it it was ok if i take off my briefs... he said yes, and was already nude under the bed covers. So i went over to him and got into the bed with him (We slept in the same bed as there was only one bed in the room and the couches in the living room was too uncomfortable to even take a quick nap in) Well one thing led to another as he kinda knew I was gayish (I told him I was bi before since at the time that's what I thought i was) and we ended up playing with one another. I even went a little further but no actual sex or anything like that.

When I first had sex? Well a few years later about 3 days after I met this new guy (who of course is now my husband) we in my flat. I was on the computer and showed him all the music videos I had (since I knew he is an opera performer and actually won numerous awards and sang with famous people and for famous people including for the Queen of England and Lady Diana back then) One thing i totally forgot was that there were a few porn clips i forgot to put in the proper place, having newly downloaded it.

Mistakenly it was part of the playlist and came up (at that time i was ignorant of the fact that he was gay and he didn't tell me either. At that time as well i was definitely sure i am gay and was happy with it). I skipped it very quicly and his interest was perked, asked me to go back to what ever that was. So in the end I showed him my whole collection and even burned a DVD with it at his request.

We started to kiss and lay down on my bed. He undressed me and I him. Well one thing led to another, but that night was also one of the highlights of my life. it was also the first time that i actually kissed a guy. We even moved to the showers and back onto the bed lol

 

I am hoping uni will change all that

 

15. He was the first guy I ever came out to. He's was and still is my best friend, although now its more a bestfriend with benefits.

It was a while after I had told him. It was Thursday, which means he comes over to my house and spends the night (I spend the night at his house on Tuesdays). It was late, and I was reading to him (he has dyslexia, but he hasn't told anyone), and I can't remember who started it, but we began kissing, and one thing led to another (we did not have sex, just a "heavy" make out session).

Mom found us asleep together in the morning, which was a normal occurence. Nothing has really changed between us, except we mess around with eachother on occasion. I've asked him if he's ever considered himself "gay" and he says "no, if I was anything it would probably be 'bi-curious' but not outright bisexual"

So basically, my first sexual experiance was also the start of a romantic friendship.

 

I'm not gonna count "experimenting" when I was young. They were "games" to me. So my first actually sexual experience with a guy was when I was 18 with the second guy I dated regrettably on our first date. I've learned you're not supposed to do that now. But after we met, things slowly started getting hot and heavy. Things ended up in his backseat where we did hj's.
But loosing my virginity was when I was 19 with my next and current boyfriend. (This time I waited a month to do anything that hot and heavy.) We'd been together for 10 months and my parents were out of town for Thanksgiving. We'd tried a few times before that but he'd kind of a big guy and I'm pretty small, so we had trouble. So this time, we did it the other way around... Since I'm small and he's big, I'd fit better... Y'know what I mean? I won't spell it out for you. Anyway. We had it all prepared. We had all the essentials and all the time we needed. We both enjoyed ourselves a lot. He was so happy when we were done that he cried a little. So I held him till we fell asleep.

 

That's how I feel about college. Roll on~

 

Gamer Am I, I always love reading your posts. They're so heart felt. Just had to say that first.

I was 11 at the time, she was a few years older then me. We weren't that good of friends, but she was one of the few kids in my neighborhood. She wanted to know what being with a girl would be like. I was attention hungry and thought it sounded like a good idea. We went into her room, closed the door and sat on her bed. I kissed her and asked her if that was okay. She said yes and we kissed more. We ended up laying side by side kissing and snuggling. And then her cousin walked in the room and caught us. Her parents kicked me out and I was never allowed over again. She spread rumors at school that I had forced myself on her. I got teased and beat up for the rest of my middle school years but I still think it was worth it. For the first time in my life I felt close to a person in a way I never had before. For those short few minutes nothing else mattered but us and I'll never regret it.

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I should mention that about a year and a half later she apologized and she became my first girlfriend. We went on to date on and off for the next few years and shared a lot of each others firsts. Nowadays she's married to a wonderful women and they're expecting their first child within the next few weeks.

 

My first experience came in 6th grade with my friend Tyler.

I slept over at his house, and he told me that he wanted to play truth or dare. We started, and soon enough he was asking me to show him my dick. That's pretty much all that happened that night; he made me jump up and down so my dick would flop around, and I made him walk around naked.

He slept over at my house a week or two later with my friend Dan (who is fucking gorgeous). Only me and him were up, and he asked to play. I said no because Dan was there, so he asked if I wanted to watch porn with him. We watched lesbian vids for a little, and I felt uncomfortable so I went to bed.

A couple of months later, I slept over at his house, with him alone. We played Truth or Dare. This time, the dares went further. We got completely naked and he dared me to touch his dick. Next came, "I dare you to jack me off for 20 seconds." I did to him, he did to me, at the same time (a non-mouth version of 69, lol). We rubbed each others butts for awhile and played with each others nipples. He asked me to suck his dick, but I thought back then that it was extremely dangerous and that I would get an STD. I went to bed.

That was the last time we ever played ToD. As far as I can tell, he's completely straight (now he's 16). I wouldn't mind if he wasn't though Outside of that, I've never done anything else with a guy/had a boyfriend.

 

but you have fisted someone of the opposate sex, right haelmarie?

 

a straight friend that I thought was gay came over so I told him I had a surprise for him in my closet because it was a walk in and when we got in it I told him to close his eyes and I kissed him. Then he grabbed me by my shoulders and told me to suck. So I was right he was gay and we took turns doing everything sexual. It was awesome. And that's when I found out that I love the taste of cum.

 

It was 3 weeks ago, with a guy I'd been talking to for a while. We'd been on and off in making plans to go out for weeeks, soo by the time we finally met we were both kinda rearin' and ready to go, haha.

Basically, we went to McDonald's, rushed out of there...it was funny, cause we both wanted it, obviously, but both of us were kind of too afraid to initiate, so there was a lot of intensity about it. Soo we went back to his place to watch a movie, but just kinda sat there for like a half hour not really talking or paying attention to whatever we were watching, I don't remember (I dunno, something with Lindsay Lohan?)

Then we got to talking and he was like "Ohh, you know, I really admire you for being 18 and like waiting and not rushing into casual sex, I bet that's been rough but I really admire it" and I was like "Awe, yeah, thaanks" then I just kinda looked down and then *come and get it eyes* "But ya know..a person can only wait so long"

As SOON as I said that his face became like SUPER nervous and he like swallowed hard and got really uncomfortable, and started laughing uncomfortably and kept looking down and then back up at me, and covered his crotch with a pillow, haha (yeaahh, I knew what that meant, by that point) then he was like "Welll....I mean...I would do that for you if you wanted" and I was like "Do what? *doe in the woods act*" and he was like "...*mumbly* give you your first blowjob!"

And I was like, by this time we were both clearly feeling really tense and I was like "Umm...I dunno....wellll, I guess" and he was like "Okay, come on lets go" and led me to his bedroom, and then after that he just kinda took control. He shoved me on the bed, pulled my shorts of and just kinda went at it, haha. No need to get into graphic details, but we had a good time.

He wanted to hook up again, but then got back together with his ex, so, oh well. We actually talked about a threesome, but yeahh, not a good idea, probably...

 

Very first time, at summer camp age 12, me and this guy exchanged HJs. I think since i didn't know anyone there, i wasn't afraid of it ruining my life. This probably explains why after that week i had no experiences until college.

 

I've had a few "first times."

The first time I ever messed around with someone of the same sex was when I was 13-a full year before I realized I had any kind of same-sex attraction. It was a friend who spent the night, and were just messing around and he let me just rub up against him and then BOOM! We agreed never to talk about that ever again.

I was 15 when I actually had a sexual encounter in which both of us wanted to have sex and actually went for it. I went over to his house one night and he was waiting for me in the driveway. We went inside and he pulled it out and wanted me to suck him, and that was all fine and dandy, and after that, I tried to top him and couldn't figure out what the hell I was doing, not to mention his parents were home that night and were sleeping in bed two doors down the hall. When I finally did get inside him, he almost screamed in pain. Then he showed his inexperience when he almost bit it off, so he sucked and jerked me off just to get it over with and send me on my merry way. That was first time attempt #2.

First time #3 was with my current boyfriend. After we got together romantically, it wasn't for a bit that we actually had sex. We were alone, and had some time, so we actually had the chance to take it slow and figure out what we were doing and get it semi-right. We both got the job done, and it took some practice later, like everybody else, but it was still quite enjoyable and so loving. And this time, it was okay to get attached.

That time though, I can think of a song that reminds me of it, though it's about a straight couple. He's got a decent voice if nothing else.

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My very first time was with a band mate. Long story short, he found out I was gay and figured I'd be a partner to screw around with sometimes. Me, being a young teenager, wanted to try it. We didn't do anything really sexual. We would cuddle half naked and make out, but that's it. He liked doing that stuff and I didn't mind. I think he was afraid to go further. We stopped after a while and never spoke of it again. He says he's straight now, but I have a hard time believing it.

My real first time was when I just started college. An old high school friend of mine hit me up to catch up and hang out. Which we did for a while, but then he mentioned that he was always curious and wanted to try. He was smokin hot and a nice guy so we did. We even semi-dated for a few months, but he decided that being with a guy was too hard on his career (sports) and his family so we went our seperate ways.

Yeah, not really juicy tales of my first times, but I remember them fondly

 

Im a junior and I haven't have experience lol

 

First date with a guy ever, after a nice dinner we ended up in his truck looking for something to do, and just found a nice place to park, and snuggled up. He got me over a lot of fears by just being patient and receptive. I took time to explore everything, from the lack of breasts to the presence of facial hair (it stings when kissing sometimes). Things progressed and I am a REALLY good kisser so as things go, I felt a rather large lump form in his pants. I asked if it would be alright for me to touch it, so I rubbed it (I am a very penis-fixated person, especially the bigger ones) over his pants, then under, and I slowly, curiously, worked my way into his underwear, and felt the heat of his huge, engorged cock in my hands. After taking time to explore the strange sensation of holding another man's penis, (he remarked "it's strange that it's not yours eh?") I asked him if I could blow him. He gave me the go ahead, so I slowly, patiently, intently explored it, before swallowing everything I could fit in my mouth. He kept asking me if I was sure I had never done that before. He blew me but I wasn't even remotely interested. An orgasm is an orgasm but I was in heaven when I held my first cock. I was a prisoner set free, a man standing from his wheelchair. After that, flirting with and dating men was the easiest thing in the world. I knew what I had to look forward to. The novelty and joy has not worn off 9 months later.

 

It was last year november, I was 17, he was 19, nearly 20. I was on holiday with my parents and met him at the bar of the hotel. He came in and everything was different. Can´t explain. I mean, he is a very handsome Brazilian with a dazzling smile, good body and a nice spirit...
My mom offered him a drink and asked him to sit with us. My parents had a little chat with him. I was so much in awe I just felt fuzzy. He put his hand on my leg, I put my hand on top and he asked my mom if he could take me outside.
There I told him I never even kissed a guy. (Never kissed anyone to be honest). He said that we had to change that immediately and brought me to a quiet spot and we kissed. I was in heaven. I thought I would faint...
I wanted to go further and we went up to his room. We fooled around and made eachother come a few times. That was easy...I didn´t feel awkward or anything. It helped that he was very experienced, I suppose. And talkative. And funny. And real hot. And I hadn´t been thinking about it. It was all spontanious. Raw instinct, I suppose.
But he wouldn´t take me although I begged for it. It took ten days of preperation before he would and it was great from a to z. But before that I was topping....Which I enjoyed just as much. So... I don´t know what counts as the first time. I feel I had three first times...:icon_bigg
I just love him to bits.
We cried when we had to say goodbye, but my parents invited him for Christmas and he never left... We are still together and getting close to our first anniversery.

 

Apparently I patted my best friend (and crush of the time) on the ass at a sleepover. Unfortunately, I was asleep at the time, so I don't remember it. She didn't (and still doesn't) know I'm bi