Please help me!

I am here · Jun 26, 2017

dirtyshirt84 said: ↑

I think you are right, it's important to remember developing these feelings is no ones fault and just something that happens whether in a relationship or not. Certainly no one would wish for this.

I've done a lot of over analysing and second guessing of things she has said and done but I suppose you just can't really know what is going on in someone else's head and what they really feel unless they tell you.

Do you still think you will tell her? Maybe It's possible she does have feelings for you and just isn't going to act on them. Did you tell her about the woman you are dating? Perhaps her reaction to that might provide some clues.

I hope you feel better soon in any case!
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Oh i totally understand the over analysing and second guessing!! I swear it is a hobby of mine haha. If i could make a career of it i would be super successful

What sort of things does the woman you like do? If you don't mind me asking?

As for telling her, I'm not sure? I'm really in two minds about it. I saw my therapist today and she seems to think maybe it's a good idea. She also said, not for the first time that from what I've said it sounds as though she might have some sort of feelings for me too... i of course then deny any possibilty of that. But it's nice to know I'm not conpletely crazy for maybe questioning the idea.

Then, of course, i run into her at the shops this afternoon. Ugh. I was completely oblivious and she came up to me and of course i was caught off guard. We chatted for about 15 minutes and it was good but now she's in my head again and it's painful.

Please help me!

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