married and gay

Geff, I'm checking in on you. That you haven't piled up the boxes in the basement and jumped off. I think you should do something for yourself that makes you feel good and can keep up while you and your wife sort things out. If you have the energy you could do a lot worse than go jogging in the park or swim laps in a pool. Kind of investing in yourself. And if you feel low, exercise can be a useful counter to the blues. I know I do my best thinking when I'm walking or running. Take care mate.