For those who don't already have kids, do you want to have kids? And it doesn't matter how you plan to have kids, whether it's the natural way (if you're bi and end up with someone of the opposite sex), adoption, sperm/egg donation, or step-kids, they all still count as your kids. For me personally, I lean strongly toward no. I certainly don't want to have kids of that are biologically mine. I have some genes and things that I don't want to pass down to any child. I'm not sure that I would want to adopt with a spouse. I might be willing to have a stepchild. That way the child is very close to my spouse, then my spouse can help them adapt to me and vice-versa. One problem with having a stepchild is when it comes to child's other parent and if there are any custody issues. I would prefer if the child was at least school age. I really don't want to raise a baby.