How often do you think of your sexuality?

Alot...

 

Good question... I've never really though about it (the question). But I'd say I probably think about sexuality 75% of the time I'm awake.

 

If you mean my sexuality specifically, then almost never. I actually spend more time shepherding others through their sexuality than ever talking about my own, honestly. Other people bring it up and I'm like "Oh yeah, that's right, I'm gay." Eventually after you've been out for so long it's just totally normal. I actually get more alarmed these days when I see a girl and I think she's cute or something, but then I realize I was probably just lusting after her shoes anyway. The only time I ever really think about sexuality seriously anymore is when something political comes up, or someone mentions something religiously oriented or something like that.

 

Let's just say that, right now, I'm making up for about 25 years of not thinking about it.

 

I think about my queerness almost constantly.

 

My sexuality is almost always on my mind.

 

Every day, all the time, even when I was in the closet (well, more so when I was in the closet).

But that's like asking how often do straight people think of their straightness. I don't know about a female's sexual drive or what goes on in their brain all day but as a man I can say this; I think about sex all the time. Most of us do, admit it guys. And not that there's anything weird about it, having a pair of testicles will do that to you. In the most general sense (not bashing on asexuals out there, btw), we're just hard wired as animals to want to procreate always. That's the way our species, and evey species on the planet, continues existing.

So, since I think about sex a lot throughout a normal day, I always by think about my sexuality because, well, I like dudes and I would like to have sex with them, thank you very much.

Also, it's still kinda new to me to be out, so I think about it on that level often as well.

 

well, a lot i guess.

 

waaaaay too much!

 

hardly ever..... unless im talking to a cute girl or something.... which is probably the norm

seems im the weird one :lol:

 

Way too much, especially lately...I think it's because I need to come out of the closet but have no courage to do that xD

 

Some days I think about it a lot and others I don't at all.

 

Oh. Only every third minute! Gota spend at least two minutes working! LOL.

 

Almost everytime.

 

I think about it really a lot, but that's maybe because I'm still not quite sure what I am...

 

A lot. But, just because it keeps switching back and forth on me. Recently I've been A LOT more attracted to guys. But I also just got rebounded by a girl and I'm more the alternating bisexual. A girl rejects me, well there are always dudes. A dude rejects me, well there are always girls. A girl likes me, well no need for a dude. Basically it's on my mind all the time because of "am I straight today or am I gay today?" which is really... odd... still...

 

Depends. I don't think I think of it when I'm thinking about guys anymore... they're just cute guys. But when I'm alone with my thoughts or I'm troubled, then it's pretty prevalent. Particularly because I've still gotta come out to a few more people, so that's always weighing on me.

 

Quite often, right now. Specially when someone who does not know I'm gay (AKA family) is next to me while I am in this website, or when I see handsome guys around. And in the last few days this is happening quite often! But they are straight :-(

 

A lot. Like someone else that posted here, most every day to see where I'm at on the Kinsey scale.

 

Almost every hour, especially when I'm not at home, then nonstop.