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Are all lesbians obsessed with boobs?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Fallingdown7, Feb 12, 2014.

  1. KWDBM

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    I guess I like to look at boobs... I mean I definitely notice if someone's top is low-cut, and I always feel giddy staring at my current crush's revealing/tight tops. But when it comes to relationship-type attraction, or actual touching, I don't care much either way.
     
  2. Fallingdown7

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    I guess I must just be the odd queer women that dislikes boobs. I expected most queer women to be attracted to them, but I guess more so my question is would it be a deal breaker if they weren't allowed to touch any.

    It's nice to know that some people would be fine with it because I'd even rather be with a guy than have my breasts touched, that's how much I despise it xD
     
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    I'm not. I mean, boobs are nice and all but there is more to a woman than her boobs! A great personality is sexy as hell!
     
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    Personally wins the boobs because if she's a nasty person I wouldn't wanna have sex with her anymore but I still love boobs :icon_redf
     
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    Hmmm, I don't really care about the size but I do like boobs. They aren't really a key aspect on whether or not I like the girl. :grin: There are other things that attract me more
     
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    I know I do like boobs if they're almost flat, so maybe I should have said that instead. I sort of project that on to my own image as well. I feel like I would enjoy breast fondling if I was maybe an A cup, but being in the C-D range makes me feel icky about my body and turned off from sleeping with any girls. I wish I could get a breast reduction to feel comfortable, but I heard those are dangerous with too many risks.
     
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    I don't like mine touched much, and I'm not especially interested in seeing others. I enjoy the view of ample cleavage, along with other curvy parts, but I have no special attraction. If someone likes hers sucked or fondled, I enjoy doing it. I'll let someone play with mine a little bit if they really want to -- both men and women seem to like them, even though they're small. (Supposedly, they have a nice shape.) Not surprisingly, I prefer what the women do with them.
     
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    I'm a lesbian and breasts are cool if they're small. If they're big, I'm not really bothered about them.
     
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    i'm not. I am more worried about personality above everything else
     
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    I'm really not into them either. I think that they are a beautiful thing but I'm not attracted to them and personally find them to be a turnoff after a C. I can barely fill an A cup and I'm still self-contious about them. I don't find it pleasing to have them played with. It just reminds me that they're there and I want them to be gone.
     
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    I'm not obsessed with any body part really. I'm attracted to the whole figure, but mostly in order for me to develop an attraction, I have to get to know the person well and that can take some time. I do like cute and classy girls mostly. As for boobs, I'd prefer smaller ones (just because I find huge ones can get in the way haha) but they really aren't important.
     
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    I really like looking at girls' boobs. but in bed, i almost find them the boring part compared to what else i could be doing between her belly buttom and the knees. haha
     
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    Well Im very self conscious about my breasts because theyre so small and I was teased a lot.

    My girlfriend is very well endowed in that area but they were so big she had a breast reduction so shes self conscious about the scars from that. Since we're long distance I haven't seen them in person but even though we're both self conscious about our bust size we are both very attracted to the others breasts LoL. I suppose Im a stereotypical lesbian because I LOVE big breasts and if she didnt want me to touch, I'd be very sad and it may eventually become a dealbreaker even though sex isnt the priority. Id feel denied.

    Perhaps you have these insecurities because of your past or another variable but whatever the reason you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Although Im sure you could find a girl who is more into another area on your body and could care less about your chest. Different strokes for different folks. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm about a D cup, and I'm not necessarily insecure about it (what others think at least) as much as I just think boobs in general look/feel gross if they're above a B. That doesn't just go for myself, but for others as well. I'm very sexually attracted to women with A-cups for the most part, but when it gets C+....even if I love the girl and her personality....I just can't feel sexually attracted to her and I'm turned off to sleeping with her because I wouldn't want to look at her breasts. That's another reason why I also get picky about lesbian porn, because both of the girls have to have A-cups for me to like it lol

    I know that sounds shallow...and I'm not trying to put others down, because I know we're all beautiful on the inside and all that. It's just a turn off to look at and I can't get past that. An example would be how some people feel about body hair. A lot of people wouldn't be able to sleep with a woman who doesn't shave her legs or armpits, and a lot of women who feel that way are also disgusted by their own body hair and are obsessed with shaving. That's how it is for me and breasts....hate my own....hate seeing my size of breasts on others....

    I think part of it is also gender dysphoria. I'm more so in the closet about being genderqueer (even here), but for me my gender is divided...a little? I love being female in the social sense, but when it comes to sex- I want to be male, and ONLY during sex. I fantasize about penetrating women with a penis or receiving a blowjob, but I feel turned off by being fingered with my natural genitals or having my breasts touched. But that's the only time I take that male role....as I wouldn't want to be male in the social sense...

    I guess I would let a certain girlfriend touch my breasts if she was lucky enough, but in return I would hope she would let me penetrate her with a strap-on on a regular basis. If she isn't able to do that, I don't think I could compromise with letting her touch mine...because some things are just too uncomfortable for me to do.
     
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    I like boobs but big ones more. I prefer a good butt better though
     
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    Oh I gotcha. I dont think thats shallow either. Everyone has preferences and I cant be attracted to under a C cup really. Im also on the genderqueer side and luckily I have smaller breasts whereas my girlfriend is very comfortable being feminine. I can imagine being genderqueer and having big breasts would be a bit dysphoric.

    Im sure theres a girl who would be fine with such a compromise! :slight_smile:
     
  17. Fallingdown7

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    It is kind of weird having an exclusive small taste in breasts, if I may admit so myself. I do think other parts of the female body are attractive, just not the breasts. But I do know if a girl has an A-cup, I can be very into touching/playing with those and staring at them haha

    But yeah, I don't really like touching mine all that much. I don't mind some attention to my "lower area" but I'm also picky on how that's done as well.

    We're opposites then. You're small-chested and only like big breasts, and I'm large-chested and only like small ones. Funny how ironic that is....
     
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    I agree. But if I like the girl, boobs are just a bonus :grin:
     
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    Breasts are my fave. Just always have been.
     
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    I don't like attention being drawn to mine by either men or women. I just don't see them as sexual at all. And with women, I like breasts as a pillow but also don't see them as sexual. Except for nipples, which are only erotic insofar as they are sensitive for the partner I'm with. Thighs, bellies and butts, on the other hand--yes! Breasts are nice for nuzzling though :slight_smile: <---(which may be the reason I'm attracted to larger breasts)
     
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