We definitely can. This became so much more real to me during lockdown. I tried meditation and whenever I came back the first thought in my head...
I guess it depends what you want to achieve. If definitely take to your wife to see how she feels about it. For me I came out to the one person I...
I really relate to this because the first time I read about comp het it was almost like giving myself permission to not hate myself for having...
Hi. I think it's a slow process. I am comfortable in myself with my attractions but not comfortable about voicing it to others at all yet. I...
That's awesome. It happening during a pandemic is obviously less awesome timing wise but it will change eventually. Self acceptance is the most...
Hi and Welcome to EC Can I just say that you write really well I was quite gripped reading your story but your pain was so obvious. It must be...
I hope that telling my husband is anti climactic but suspect it won't be. Yep coming out during Covid is rather limiting isn't it. I haven't even...
Oh Emily I don't envy you. I can't have sex with mine, I just can't bring myself to touch him at all. With the therapy thing I'm not doing it to...
Hi Emily I'm so sorry. I suspect mine will be much the same. I could be wrong but I suspect denial will be the response. I'm not even with anyone...
Hey. Thanks for checking on me. Yeah I'm fine. Still gay, still fed up to the back teeth of this sham of a marriage and still looking like an...
Thanks everyone. I've checked the links in the emails I was sent and there isn't an option to provide additional information or speak to the...
Thank you everyone who has replied. I know the sensible thing to do is to wait until the session and I will do that, as much as a huge part of me...
Hi. He moved the appointment. He picked a poor date but I was happy to do what was needed to make it work but he refused. I suspect it's a...
And he's cancelled the appointment and moved it to the 12th. No idea why. The way I feel right now I might just blurt it out
Thanks for the support everyone. Well, we have an appointment with a virtual therapist for next week. I was sent a questionnaire to fill out but...
All ok in the test. Thought it would be but you can't be too careful atm. I tried to talk to hubby but I got as far as saying I was deeply unhappy...
Congratulations on taking the next steps forward in your life. That's amazing.
Vampire frog"
Hi. I guess it depends, can your actually fully imagine yourself in those situations? Are you in a position to explore your fantasy further and do...
It's amazing how much you've come through and for strong you've become. You should be so proud of yourself.
