Thanks for sharing your story.
I appreciate you posting this since I started the original thread. It looks like we are about the same age and in the same position. This is still...
Just take your time, make sure you are relaxed, start small, and use lots of lube. Over time you should be able to increase in size.
I agree with your point. The issue for some of us is trying to convince ourselves that are straight or bisexual. Figuring out that I am gay took a...
An important point and thank you for mentioning it. I think one of the reasons that people in our situation might struggle is the fear of the...
You wrote about not understanding your gay feelings and getting married, following the path that everyone around you was taking. This is something...
I appreciate you describing what you are feeling since it really resonates with me. I struggled with the same thing for years but I could not...
I think that you have taken the hardest steps already in that you have acknowledged that you are gay to yourself and then you said it out loud to...
Congrats on taking this first step Leal. That is the hardest one. Good luck with your journey from here.
I’m sorry to hear that you are feeling this way. It seems positive that you got validation from your therapist but disappointing to hear of the...
I wish I had his courage at his age. Great for him!
I think one of the reasons that I could not connect the dots on my sexuality when I was younger is that I had the same thinking. I thought gay men...
Thanks for your advice David. I am glad your situation ended up being good. That is a good comment on the fidelity in your relationship. I am glad...
Out and In, I think I could have written this entire post myself except the part about revealing my sexuality before I married. I still tried to...
Love that you are confident enough to do that....makes me look forward to being able to do it at some point myself.
I just thought I would share that things seemed to have calmed just a bit. Still dealing with the reaction, but at least we are talking about it...
My next milestone will need to be coming out to my kids. They are both teenagers/young adults. I think their generation is very comfortable with...
This is when I wish I lived in a larger city. I don't think the gay community is as large here and not as many resources. It isn't zero, but I...
This is fantastic to hear and I am very happy for you. I am worried about integrating into the gay community, meeting people, and being accepted,...
This has been a concern for me, but something I just cannot do anything about. I think about what it would have been like if I had come out in my...
