I think you could/should tell him about it, but also maybe try and be clear about the fact that you and he have had other relationship struggles,...
I think it's fairly normal to have crushes on people while you're in a relationship, and definitely don't feel bad. It is a very complicated time,...
I'm not sure I'm the best person to answer this, as I have not had great success with the one situation i've been in similar to that. But I will...
@FindingLouie I know, I can't wait either. I hope it will happen for both of us. In the meantime, I'm doing the work of learning to be by myself...
This is really a great post. You describe so much of what I've been going through. Thank you for sharing.. this thread has already helped me so...
Thanks @FindingLouie and @globalgal for those those heartfelt posts. I feel so many of the same things, I put my hand over my heart as I was...
Welcome back! It's so nice to hear others talk about their similar experiences. I can especially relate to the part of your story where you fell...
Yeah, totally sounds like me as well. I agree with you about the imprinting! I want to be out dating. I'm just not ready yet because I'm fresh...
Yes, thank you, I really relate to this. I'm generally happy with myself and am working through recovery from upheaving my life. I have a good...
Definitely these feelings are unrealistic. Like, movie romance. lol. Thanks for letting me know you've been through this too!
Yeah, a lot of the time I think my problem is that I'm being hard on myself for still having these feelings. The problem isn't really with me...
Thanks for your reply! My friend and I have been honest about our feelings quite a lot in the past, and I also found it really helpful and I would...
Hi all, Did anyone else have trouble getting over the first person of the same sex they fell for? I'm finding it really difficult. I'm not...
Yeah, it's definitely interesting that some people clearly know from a very young age, and others are unaware until much later. I think you may be...
I'm sorry, I'm not replying with any good advice about how to engage in the LGBTQ+ community, as I'm just beginning to work on that myself. But...
Totally, and I was not even one bit aware of rationalizing away anything. I did get to the point where even I realized it was clear that I found...
Yes this resonates with me as well! I think for me, though, I was a bit boy crazy when I was younger. So maybe I've always been a little bi-sexual...
Thank you so much for your post @globalgal ! Welcome! I pretty much could have written your post. I was so completely unaware/oblivious to the...
Hi, I have a question for you folks who came out/are coming out later in life. I've been thinking about this a bit as I try to come out to family...
Thank you very much for your post! It really spoke to me. I'm at a different point in my journey - very recently separated, no kids, have come out...
