I think that most people do, yes. I certainly did. I felt like it was fine being sure in my head that I was gay, but the moment I told people,...
Welcome to EC! Hello. It sounds like this was a joint 'coming out to him and telling him you like him' moment... just coming out isn't an easy...
Yeah, I'd date a camp guy. I'm dating one now, in fact, and have been for some time!
I saw this headline and I couldn't help but laugh, even though it's also sad because innocent bystanders got hurt. Lawmaker who thinks gays a...
I think it sounds fairly promising. If he's willing to play potentially flirty games and say things like he's said, even if he isn't gay he would...
Hi! I don't think that 14 is too young to know who you are and who you like, or necessarily too young to come out and tell other people. As one...
It is really reassuring to hear from a parent like you! I've got a couple of thoughts: Yes, some people knew they were gay at a very young...
I think that Chip's advice is very sensible; find out what the law is in your area. If there are trans protections in place where you live, then...
Hello quietman, Congratulations on coming out! When I sorted through my thoughts and feelings after I realised I was gay, I thought that, and...
I'm not sure that there are any 'nice' ways to turn someone down, because getting turned down is always disappointing. That said, there are...
Hello and welcome to EC! You seem quite determined to come out to family and close friends. Good for you! I was 21 when I came out to my parents...
A lot of thinking and soul-searching, a bit of being realistic with myself about who turned me on (and who didn't), and then the final evidence...
Hello, I've had a couple of friends who have been suicidal at times, so I know its a scary place to be. You don't have to tell your BF that...
Don't worry! I had the same response from quite a few of my friends. Several people replied, "Oh! Really? Um... really?" One girl was really...
Well, I have no gay relatives (that I know of, and I suspect that means I don't have any), but I did have a similar situation vis-a-vis my parents...
The guy hasn't been vetted yet because nobody's been asking his former girlfriends about him? What a load of rubbish! Did anyone bother to ask...
s5m1 gave you a pretty good list of things to think about, so I won't try to add to it. When I was thinking about my own sexuality, I spent a lot...
I saw this article and just laughed. How many times is this sort of thing going to happen? At least he hasn't trotted out a pathetic excuse about...
That's brilliant!
The first person I told was a straight friend I had a bit of a crush on, because I felt I had to come out after we both got drunk and I kissed...