You all are seemingly talking about heterosexuals' "gaydars" and them, finding lesbians more acceptable since they are male and vice versa for...
Thanks for your replies. Of course, stereotypes are not always true and sometimes they are for some people. If there are more experiences...
I think I'm at least bi. I get attracted to women (as a women myself); I lower my voice and act chivalrous sometimes with some women. When I see...
I have a question related to the so called "gaydar" and uncertainity about one's sexual orientation. If you get "mistaken" for or read as gay or...
Maybe if you think about what it is that you fear when you are around men or what is it exactly that you fear about being gay? Or you could try to...
I'm like that, too. I feel I'm not straight but I'm like, maybe I'm straight and just making things up. Like it's just a phase or yeah, there is...
I'd say it's an unconscious societal thing. You just try to be appealing or not appealing to a certain sex. Whether consciously or unconsciously....
I've had to go trough depressions as well. Several times. And sometimes, just like you, I thought nobody cares, nobody cares about how bad I'm...
Does it mean if you trip someone else's gaydar you're probably at least bi? Could it be, you unconsciously try to appeal to the same sex?...
For me, mostly other gay or bi people seem to think of me as gay, even at the time I was closeted and repressed. It's probably because of certain...
That's very confusing. See, I feel similar but one thing you could ask yourself is "what does it mean?". Or you could not think about it and wait...
I don't wear skirts, dresses or heels. But if there's a really festive type of event like going to the opera, I may wear a dress. Those are some...
That sounds like you should talk to someone, a very close friend at least. I can only tell you that even if no-body else is in a room with you,...
To get back to my original question: I'm asking since I'm wondering if I am repressing myself and whether accepting yourself would change...
I'm insecure and felt like I'm not valuable, unworthy of others' love, connection, attention, care, ...etc. I'm trying to understand that this is...
My favourite was Sailor Saturn. She is really cool and kind of gloomy.
Yes, that sounds like denial. If you're having a feeling but you'd rather not have it, it's denial. I do have that, too. Did anything change...
I think at least my mother suspects something like that. Once a (girl)friend called me on the phone frequently and my mother asked me if she was...
I'm kind of similar. I'm not sure whether I'm gay, bi or maybe even asexual (nowadays I doubt it). And thus, if I call myself any of these and I'm...
That's exactly what I've experienced. I thought was asexual mostly but that was because I was denying my attraction to girls. I'm still not...
