* I see myself as a bottom, but the ¨normal¨ thing is to do both, right? Some only want top, some only want to bottom, and some want to do both....
I used to play Animal Crossing - City Folk back in the day. I actually stopped playing because my favorite villagers moved away, and I got a bunch...
I've been told "Wow, it must be great being gay - you don't have to deal with women's BS at all!" To which I usually respond, "Yeah, which is why...
You can always do some fishing. Asking "Are you going to the dance?" was a good move, as you got some info right away - she IS planning on going....
It sounds like he really got into it at the time, but now he's having "buyer's remorse". A lot of guys are reluctant to simply cut guys off with...
He's single, though. [img] Lex
Well, let's narrow the focus a bit. Your mother "doesn't think my friends and I can be trusted at a sleepover." It shouldn't matter much to your...
You decided to see if you could accept a non-monogamous partner, and you've given yourself several years to try to get used to the idea. But it...
About all you can do is set your goals and keep your eyes on the prize. Focus on getting out of there, and do all you can to get to that goal. I'd...
I guess I'm in category 2, although I figured it out when I was twenty, not in my thirties. But all through my adolescence and teenage years, I...
I collect records (and listen to them!). I also like writing, reading, and designing and drawing T-shirts. Lex
Several years back, I started a thread where I mentioned that I had texted a friend "I'm stuck in this bar for a while longer - I have to give a...
Stockton is somewhat outside the SF Bay Area, if memory serves, but I can't imagine it's so far away that the doctors in the area aren't LGBTQ...
Family? Only one, and that one's by marriage. My sister's husband's brother is gay. I've only met him once, though - at their wedding. :)...
I'm about 95% top. And I can't say as I've ever felt more "submissive" or "effeminate" or anything else when bottoming than when topping. I don't...
You might try taking some tentative steps out. When I was feeling a bit too much like a "homebody", I took a course on cooking, and a water...
I'd second the suggestion that you might be grappling with depression. Feelings of despair and "what's the use?" are pretty common with that. Lex
I was...well, not even in denial. Just kind of clueless about my sexuality during my teen years. And way back then, porn was sort of "you get what...
Nothing wrong with having fantasies about women, or indulging in them. You might be a bit bisexual - that's totally fine. :) That said, yes, it's...
It's borderline useless to use a calendar to check the progress of your puberty. Some people have something happen at age 14, but for others, it...