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Is oral sex sex ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by stocking, Dec 7, 2014.

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Do you think Oral sex is sex ?

Poll closed Apr 6, 2015.

  1. I think oral sex is sex

    143 vote(s)
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  2. No oral sex is just fore play

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  1. stocking

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    I rolled my eyes ,because I thought you said only penetration counts . I feel the same way as falling said I see penetration more as foreplay or just a way to get off ,but I see oral sex more as the hierarchy of sex but just for me being a lesbian . So I don't like how people are saying penetration or specifically penis in vagina sex is the hierarchy of sex acts it's not to me it's just place that way by society ,because society can't see how sex can take place without a penis involved.
    Which I think is stupid . I understand that you are unfamiliar with how lesbians have sex from what your telling me now . But I just can't stand how society has the "if a penis isn't involved in sex acts it ain't sex " that's just stupid to me , I think sex such as oral penetration should be placed on the hierarchy I think the whole only penis counts thing is just society wanting to believe everyone is heterosexual .
     
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    Oh hell yeah.

    ---------- Post added 9th Dec 2014 at 04:26 PM ----------
    No, it's the woman giving him oral to get him hard again, so intercourse can continue. Not right after either. LIke in the movie "My stepmother is an alien" if anyone's ever seen the sex scene with Kim Basinger. I'm just going by what I've been told, I've not done that myself.
     
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  3. Fallingdown7

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    I still don't see how that would work because once someone cums, sex is over. Trying to stimulate the genitals after an orgasm hurts really, really bad so I wouldn't want anyone doing that to me even if I had had a break time. Orgasms turn people off which is why some guys will just perform oral on the woman after intercourse to get them off since it hurts them too much to continue.
     
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    Given that oral stimulates the clitoris far better than penetration in heterosexual relationships, I can see why. But you're correct, as far as I know. It doesn't matter if the guy can get hard again after orgasm, he can't get off again.
     
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    I always thought it was...I have heard a few people say it wasn't but I always thought they were joking. I mean, oral can take someone to heavenly, intense states of pleasure...then a mind-blowing orgasm, and someone is going to say, "oh, we didn't have sex, only oral". Seriously? So that wasn't sex? What was it then? LOL.
     
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    I agree with this , I would think if he continues he's probably faking it , I heard some men say they fake it .

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    This
     
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    Technically, I think some men have been known to dry orgasm, and they can do it again if so. But that isn't common.
     
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    Ohhh but I have a question for you if it was really intense mind blowing oral sex would he still be able too ?:confused: I would think he would be worn out .
     
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    If the only concern is the ability to orgasm again, then I don't suppose it would be an issue. Nonetheless, as you say, sex can be tiring, and orgasms tend to turn people off anyway.
     
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    Yeah I would think because I heard men only orgasm once , but some men don't lose the ability to have sex again .
     
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    Well it would only be polite to finish off their partner.
     
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    That makes sense no wonder women say men never ograsm during piv sex . :eusa_doh:
     
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    They do? I thought it was the other way round...
     
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    Well the girls I know say that , I also here the men say the women don't either and the women say they use their toys to get an orgasm but then again heterosexuals confuse me when it comes to sex :confused:
     
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    Well, I've seen research suggesting women orgasm far less than men in heterosex. Basically because men ignore the clitoris, which is what actually produces orgasm. Dunno about men's orgasms, really. I've never heard of a problem though.
     
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    I heard that too but one girl was telling me she gets upset and think men never moan and that she wondered why . Seems like heterosexuals place to much importance on piv sex or are just not understanding about sex.
     
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    You don't have to moan in order to orgasm.
     
    #117 Hexagon, Dec 9, 2014
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    Good point :lol:
     
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    Is it sexual intercourse? Yes.
     
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    I think oral sex is definitely sex, just a different form of it than PiV intercourse.

    The "oral sex doesn't count as real sex!" argument has always bugged me. I find good oral sex can be just as enjoyable and intimate as PiV sex.
     
    #120 TurtleCat, Dec 9, 2014
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