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spill it: your fist sexual experience with the same gender

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ICTOAUN, Jun 22, 2011.

  1. Kidd

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    I've said this before on EC but I'll say it again I suppose.

    We found a porn stash and basically thought we would try it out. I was like, probably 13 at the oldest, and I barely even really knew the kid, he was a little bit older than me. I think he was probably like 15 or something. He was just a neighborhood boy that I hung out with occasionally, before I moved away. It was totally awkward and embarrassing, and we had no idea what we were doing and I really regret it, honestly.

    Save yourselves for someone that really loves you, trust me.
     
  2. ToTheCeilingFan

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    This made me :lol:
     
  3. ShebbsIsAwesome

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    My first kiss was with a guy that I really liked.:kiss:

    We had been hanging out for a few days, and one day when we were listening to music and he was driving me home, he took a side road. He asked me to play[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xxjciv7ZcHI[/YOUTUBE]. I did, and he unbuckled his seatbelt, singing along with me. At the stop sign at about 30 seconds or less into the song, he scooted over and kissed me. I was taken by surprise, it was great :slight_smile:. It wasnt just a little peck either, this kiss lasted probably about a minute. We began driving back home, and was near my house, he asked me if I wanted to stop at my house, I said no. We drove around my neighbor hood and he asked if we could kiss again, at another stop sign. I said yes, and we did (to this song [YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nC_Z-EPSVaI[/YOUTUBE])

    So a few days later he asked me out, and I said yes.

    My first time having sex was at my house.

    I had gotten really sick, and didn't go to school for 2 days in the beginning. He had a fight with his dad, and texted me to see if I was not in school today too because he wanted to come over. (He treated me really good for the 2 days I was out of school too :slight_smile: He brought me soup and tea :slight_smile:) So he came over, and we just sat there watching TV, talking. He massaged my back, I did the same. Then we started kissing, and one thing lead to another and we ended up taking a shower together. Right after the shower a construction guy banged on my door and I had C stay in the bathroom lol (clothes were out in the living room xD)

    He continued to come over my house every day when I was sick. :slight_smile: He's great. We're still together. Our 2 month is on the 26th.
     
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    Well, we didn't kiss but or do anything that sexual... but it was certainly more than a friend thing XD Probably would've gone further if her mum hadn't walked in and caused us to quickly put our shirts on/cover up. Kinda killed the mood, but it was pretty hilarious.
     
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    [YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vc7_NEinAjI[/YOUTUBE]

    Totally made me think of this. xD
     
  6. Nat3

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    I'm still a virgin in matters regarding telling how I lost my virginity.:slight_smile:
    I want to keep that...lol Since I lost the other virginity already.
     
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    jeez i feel kinda dirty saying this considering my age....

    Well, my first "encounter" was at an honor band camp not to long ago. I stayed in a college dorm for two nights with two of my friends, abbey and sammy. The very first night my friends where telling me how they liked to have fun. They told me they made out once and i was kinda jealous... because i kinda envyed them. Then Abbey turned to me and said "come here." Well i was still a little bit in the closet then, so i was nervous. I just scooched a little closer, blushing, kinda embarassed. Abbey smiled and said "if you make it awkward it'll be awkward" So i just went for it. And it was about 10 seconds long. Well ho-hum. Sammy was still there.

    Sammy and abbey made out in front of me. Goddamn was i mad!!!!! But i got my turn.... We all spent half the night touching each other *blushes*

    the next night there was a dance for all of the students at the honor band camp to go to, and i met a guy named randall. he was cute, so i danced with him. Well, we ended up kissing and i just didn't feel anything. I ran away as fast as i could!!! I was scared and i dont know why.......

    ---------- Post added 24th Jun 2011 at 02:18 PM ----------

    And the funny thing is is that those girls are both straight ._.
     
  8. ICTOAUN

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    haha nice. im jealous of U! wish i could just casually make out with two pretty straight girls.
     
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    I was 14, maybe 15. My then best friend texted me one night, not so out of the blue, asking if I'd thought about kissing her. With some hesitation I texted back a yes, feeling like I'd just jumped out of an airplane with no parachute. However a day later we're in my bed, lying close to each other and she gives me my first kiss, which later led to so much more.
     
  10. Owen

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    That's so sweet! I especially like the "feeling like I'd just jumped out of an airplane with no parachute" metaphor; that's a great description for that feeling.
     
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    I jacked a guy off in the basement while we were all watching Short Circuit.

    Now I can't watch Short Circuit without thinking of that.
     
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    SO :bang: JEALOUS :bang: NEVER :bang: KISSED :bang: A GIRL!! :bang::bang::bang::bang::bang::bang::bang::bang:
     
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    Neither have I :icon_redf :confused:

    Just be patient, it will happen sooner or later :slight_smile: That's what I'm hoping anyways ^^;
     
  14. loveangel4212

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    My first time was really young i was 11 and she was 8. Autumn (my mother she doesnt deserve to be called mom) used to watch my next door neighbor. And one day while we were on my bed talking she asked me if i wanted to practice with her. I asked what she ment and she showed me we countiuned to "practice" on each other for over a year. We had an unspoken rule that we wouldn't kiss and one time she crossed that line. I always veiwed it as practice and was pretty upset when that happened not at her but at myself. I was really mixed up back then (by this point i was 12) and asked her why she did that and she ran crying over to her house. She acted like a b**** to me from then on. Needless to stay i never felt anything no matter how many toys we used (autumn never locked them up and actually stored some of them in my room she had so many.)
     
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    Boys bathroom in highschool. It was just making out but still. As soon as the door opened we'd push each other away and do our things (e.g. me washing hands and him drying his) then go "later bro" then one leaves

    we were great actors haha
     
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    ughhhhhhh extremely annoyingly sadly never.
     
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    Mine was a bit awkward as I didnt realize or was unable to admit to myself I was Bi yet. I just had my wife run off with my best friend and was a mess in every sense of the word. Well guys on my former ship kept trying to take me to strip clubs and get me hooked up with some women or another and I was not in the mood for that. I was so messed up in the head sex was the last thing on my mind. So I called up a gay friend I had met in San Diego at a club or the concert I went to before it. I asked if I could impose on him and stay there for a long weekend when I didnt have duty to get away from it. He had heard though my myspace what happened and said yes. So I got drunk with him at his house and we just talked about it all. Well things were going ok and we were watching a movie but by this point I was hammered. A song that was special to me and my ex comes on and I broke down. So he hugs me and just kind held me. Next thing I knew he was kissing my neck and I didnt feel the need to stop it. We fooled around a little then I think I finished and passed out because next thing I know I woke up nude next to him. I freaked grabbed my things and booked it before he even woke up. I flew to my apartment and kind just didnt say anything about it or talk to him for a while. Heck have not really talked to him since other then to tell him I wasnt mad as we were both drunk and he was trying to be comforting.
     
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    there was this girl in my math class, i would always catch her looking at me and one day she asked if i wanted to hang out.. we went to a concert and i became incredibly comfortable around her. a few days later she asked if i wanted to go over to one of her friends house for a get together, i went after work not really expected anything to happen. everyone was already drunk when i got there so i started doing shots with her.. we ended up laying on the floor talking about relationships and how screwed up they can leave you.. she told me she wanted to kiss me and i said i wouldnt mind if she did... the song "in for the kill"- la roux came on and we started kissing.. it was the most amazing thing , i ended up staying the night and we just fooled around, things were a little awkward in the morning and we werent sure how to act around eachother, we started seeing eachother after that but then later i found out she had been having sex with one of her exs (a guy).. we dont really talk anymore but i really miss her. overall i think it was a good first time and dont regret it at all, i just wish it hadnt ended the way it did
     
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    My first time was about a year or two ago, I had started dating my friend Erik from my drama class at school. We had hung out at his place a lot and mostly just made out on the couch before his mom came home. One day, we're making out on the couch and he starts taking my shirt off me, and so one thing led to another and we ended up in his bed. I think I did love him, I just didnt have the stomache to come out of the closet and I felt inadequate. Also, I didnt think I was ready for that kind of thing... not to mention he wanted it more and more after that. I broke up with him at the start of the next school year. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I was in my late 30's. I was so nervous I felt like a teenager, all awkward and scared I'd mess things up. We were at her home. I can remember asking her if I could kiss her. She asked me what was stopping me. My heart was beating 90 mph. I won't go into any other details but I can safely say that while I have been with a few guys before then I didn't truly understand what orgasm was until that point. OMG. Despite all of the nervousness it felt so amazingly natural. I often wonder why it took me that long to figure out.