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When you see a straight couple on the street, to which one do your eyes go first?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by CuriousLiaison, Dec 21, 2014.

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    The women I always check them out to see if their hot or not :slight_smile:
    Then the man because I'm thinking what did he do to get her , then I think damn I'm so jealous of him .:confused:
     
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    I always look at the girl. Especially if shes cute! Then when she looks at me I smile. The poor boyfriend has no idea that I want to rip his girlfriends clothes off and have my way with her. The joys of being a feminine lesbian :wink:
     
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    Totally depends. I've had both happen. I guess whichever is more attractive? I'll have to actually think about it now when I'm out (because that happens so often...I don't spend all my time at home with my cats and my laptop...nope.)
     
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    The guy, definitely. I think I look more at women because I'm scared a guy will notice me looking at him, but I default to the guy in most situations. Rarely do I pick out a woman for their beauty over a guy they're with. :wink:
     
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    I turn away completely because who wants to see straight couples in public?! JK JK

    In all seriousness though, I don't care. I'm not really attracted to anyone I don't have a close bond with anyway.
     
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    Honestly, the guy.. As I'll usually catch him checking me out. Sounds awful, I know. lol
    If he's not looking at me, I guess it's usually the female. It depends on their appearance though.
     
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    Weirddddddddddddddddd! :wink:
     
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    I'm almost embarrassed to admit this, but since realising I was gay, I have become a bit of a heterophobe!

    I see a straight couple, and I think "Ew, why would you?" - it's like my subconcious has finally given up and just admitted defeat to the gay.

    I watched Dirty Dancing this evening, and was entirely un-stimulated by the whole Swayze-Grey "chemistry". What the hell is all that about?

    I'd look at the girl. And blur out the bloke.
     
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    I notice... her hair, outfit, shoes and purse... then his body! :eusa_doh: Seriously though, that is actually what I do... followed by the jealousy thing mentioned above!
     
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    guy's package
     
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    i check her out, mostly her outfit, shoes, makeup, hair, then if she's hot. i check him out if hes hot, on the sly though. i wasn't always like this, i used to totally ignore him and check her out . that might have been part of the cover, even from me, but since i've come out to myself and a few others, i've changed and i kind of like it.
     
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    I don't do much people-watching either, but as far as I can remember I notice the woman first. Women's clothes are almost always way more interesting than men's clothes and women are ... more beautiful to me. I never quite thought about it that way before but it's interesting. So thanks for bringing it up.
     
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    Neither, I hate eye contact.
     
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    I almost always look at the guy...but sometimes there will be women who are really beautiful to look at...but my eyes will wander to the guy eventually. :grin:
     
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    Whoever takes up the most space or is closest to me. :wink:

    If they're wearing something outrages, making a lot of noise, or unnecessary movement, then to whoever the culprit is.

    So... depends.
     
  18. Wildside

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    me too. that's why my eyes are down at crotch level to begin with.
     
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    Now listen, I am NEVER jealous of people's relationships. I am pretty good on not being jealous in general. Often though, my eyes will defaulty look at the guy's face before the girls. However, I like noticing people's faces and if the couple has piercing or a bizarre hair colour they are twice as adorable to me... I mean, I am okay with anyone finding love, hetero or homo, so I often compliment couples in public on being "adorable." ...Still, obviously I like guys more, since the female gender actaully frightens me a little, but I am not going to look at the guy or girl's junk... Yeah, I am a strong believer in not being pervy in public. :wink: However, not in public is another story... jk... kinda!
     
  20. Wildside

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    well, I don't mean staring at his junk. but my eyes definitely go there. like straight guys who notice cleavage.