You mean if I had to choose one and would never be able to have the other? Tough choice but I think I would rather cuddle with someone I love than have sex with someone I don't love (though that is quite fun). The truth is that generally if you have someone who you are both romantically in love with each other then sex will generally follow at some point, it may not be an every day event but it will usually happen.
Thank you for the kind words, although I dare say she is completely fine (..I think)! Except obviously that the sex hurts. Never bothered her THAT much anyway :eusa_danc (*hug*)
Romance is more important to me. Yeah I'm a virgin and of course I would like to be intimate with my boyfriend, but I just don't need sex, kissing, cuddling, holding hands, sleeping together and giving warmth to each other is a lot more important to me than having sex for a while and done. I know sex is not just penetration, ejaculation and done, but I think I'll enjoy the whole process without the penetration.
Definitely romance. Sex would be nice but when I think about what kind of relationship I want, sex doesn't even come to my mind. I'd rather have a close relationship with someone I care about.
romance first then sex, but it is hard to have romantic relationship with someone I'm not sexually attracted to.
I think definitely romance. I'd like to be able to have that connection with a person before I even consider sex.