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What is more important to you sex or romance ?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Linux Lenny, Jun 19, 2014.

  1. Linux Lenny

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    Actually the more I love and feel comfortable with who I am ,the more I feel more romantic than sexual . I mean that I prefer the romantic side of the relationship(cuddling , holding hands , kissing ... etc) more than the sexual side , but of course I still want to have sex but the lust for love is more .

    I am curious to know what others think , so what do you prefer more ,sex or romance ?
     
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    romance of course and i would never have sex with someone im not romantically attracted to cause to me its not having sex its having love when im with someone i really love and trust
    well though sometimes i just like romantic stuff without sex you could say i get bored easily im not like most men im a little sex less when it comes to relationships for me sex is not so important as romance and love
     
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    right now, i'd settle for just the sex, hot passionate sex.:lol:
     
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    I feel exactly the same way. Sometimes I really want sex, but most of the time I crave te romance of a relationship. I am married, and I feel a lot sexier when my husband takes the time to be romantic with me than when he just puts it on me in the bedroom. :\
     
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    ROMANCE. I don't feel comfortable having sex unless there's a romantic bond first.
     
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    How about romantic sex? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I long for passionate fun with someone I care for. I'm not able to just have sex without deeper attraction.
     
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    I'd have to go with romance :slight_smile:
     
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    Romance. I could live without ever experiencing sex and be happy.
     
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    Romance. Hands down, no question about it. Sex is nice, but romance transcends everything. Even if I was never able to have sex with someone, I would take a true romantic pairing any day.
     
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    Romance. Sex is not important to me at all.
     
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    Romance, but I don't mind having sex with my partner at all.
     
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    Romance, but ideally I'd like both.
     
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    That's what I think too. Could use some of that.

    I like romance a lot. But I also think women are sexy. It wouldn't be as fun completely without sex. :wink:
     
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    SEX :wink: I'm giving romance a break for a while. Love is a fickle thing. Lust is honest and direct
     
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    In general, romance is more important but I want it both. When I've gone weeks without seeing my partner in person, romance isn't the first thing on my mind at that moment.
     
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    Romance, but that may just be because I'm asexual :wink: haha
     
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    I would go for romance more than the sex. Cuddling is funner than sex for me...
     
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    cuddling >>sex
     
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    Given my age, I'm over the sex bit of it and the romantic part of my relationship is far more important to me. But I think that tends to happen as we get older. The moments matter less than the things that endure. Sorry, but sex doesn't endure. Don't get me wrong, it's fun, but it isn't something that lasts longer than the moment. At least this is how I feel about it...