why do so many couples bareback?

but... but.... some of them are flavored... mmmmmm.... tasty.

 

wow I had no idea bareback was such a turn-on.
personally I like condoms, and like a few posters above me said, it shows the effort when they put it on.

 

Exactly Chip. My friend is positive and he got pissed at me accidentally saying clean at one point. I think I might have said it once in this thread but I do apologize as it really isn't a word to use.

 

I honestly think i am incapable. Whether a product of nature or nurture, for reasons beyond my control, condoms are anathema to my state of arousal. It is due to more than just physical sensation.

And i have tried. Oh, how i have tried. I continue to try. As a matter of fact i hope i continue to try my entire life.

My point is that not everyone who doesn't enjoy protected sex very much is capable of significantly increasing their enjoyment. The third paragraph above seems to imply a conscious choice.

 

A a bit off-topic, but I suppose you've tried different types of condoms. Because some kind of condoms may feel better for you than some others. At least it's the case for me.

On a side note, I always consider condoms were part of the fun anyway. As unprotected sex is not the best option, lets have safe sex and make the best of it

 

Yeah, i struggled for a long time to find a comfortable brand, but i have now.

 

There's Trojan naked sensations if people are so into barebacking frankly...I mean it feels like nothing is there but the good thing is, there is.

 

generally the base ring is the issue rather than the material itself. i had used a lot of different material types with no great improvements. I do have a brand i like now, and they allow me to at least have sex and remain erect.

 

What's it called? I will admit the ring is difficult for me too and staying erect is also difficult.

 

Actually they're just standard ansell latex, but they're extra wide, 64mm at the base so i don't end up with as bad of an angry red circle. They're pretty good, i haven't had one break yet

 

I don't have a problem with condoms. In fact, I like them, am tested often (for everything) and am responsiblER. Having said that, BB feels great to give and receive especially if it ends with the cum inside.

 

i did not know you were like that

 

I think people like the thought of being skin on skin

 

I am relatively new to EC but this post caught my attention.

Straight to the point, I suspect many people participate in bareback sex because it is more natural (which may stimulate the arousal of it) and the means of procreation.

To that end, I think we all need to recognize a truth. Our parents, at one point or another if not many times, were part of bareback sex.

The philosophical debate behind this is an entirely separate issue and far harder to find an answer with.

As with most discussions regarding this topic, this post has become a competition of values: safety v. trust, faithfulness v. health, independence v. commitment.

 

Well a lot of the time they're under the impression that the other is monogamous,
And "clean" cause they 'said so'.

Yeah no,
Get them tested,
See the OFFICIAL results,
Know their sexual past INSIDE and OUT!
And then maybe it'd be more acceptable,
And to assume your partner is that 1 in 1 million who won't have that one 'mistaken' night in Bangkok would be dangerous to assume!

Protected all the way,
A false sense of security is the most dangerous thing!

 

I know this is politically incorrect, but I have been with my lover so long and he is shy and believes I made him gay that I KNOW he have never been with anyone else.

The intimacy of our semen mixing is just the total act of love to me. Knowing I carry away his DNA makes me feels good. We are both tops and both bottoms so I have done it every way. It is just total love. Before him, I had never made love or even masturbated with anyone who was not first a pretty good friend.

Rob
Seaview

 

Its cool to be able to freely discuss such a debated topic without fear of embarrassment.
I feel that sexual desires, tastes, fantasies etc are so varied that its hard to evaluate what is 'right' or 'wrong'. One could say that bb sex is wrong, but then many straign people say that about non-hetero sexual orientations. BB sex does involve a certain risk factor, but then again so does bungi jumping and the like. I get that some relationships dont last long and its safer to use protection, but i also feel there must eb something more to non-hetero relationships than sex and that eventually over time it will be possible to trust one's lover enough to not fear unfaithfulness etc. Homosexuality is much older than condom useage as far as i am aware and so it is more 'natural' in many ways. Granted, nowadays there is more risk and so people in initial stages of a relationship should be more careful. Hopefully some relationships last longer and trust is earned over time...