Why am I always jealous when I see people in love?

Because you want to find love, It's not hard to answer...... I found a girl who I am currently still with who I am so in love with, It was my first straight relationship because normally I go for the dick and not the pussy lol. Just go and date people you will find the one eventually...

 

I would suggest doing a hobby, like going to the gym etc. You can also go to uni and meet new friends and take it from there, You can also do an apprenticeship this is like uni but the difference is you work and go to college a few days a week could be great for meeting people. You don't have to drink to have a good time. You can still go to pubs and clubs to talk to guys, all you need is to build up your confidence, also don't be scared of rejection if you like a guy and he rejects you then it's his loss go to the next guy and keep repeating. But dating websites are not a bad choice I found my girlfriend on ###### funny enough, I thought people just wanted sex on ###### but that wasn't true until I found the right girl. The choice is yours my friend have fun!

 

I wish I had left higher education for later on, to be honest. I did not take my studies seriously when I was at uni, got very lazy and lost my confidence. Because I had gone from school straight to college and straight to university and I felt like I had been living my whole life going to classes. I wish I had taken a long break from education and got a normal job for a year or two, then started thinking more about career goals, then I might have performed better at uni. Some people do go through all of that and get their dream job at the end, but it didn't work out that way for me.

You will always have the option to go back to higher education when you're older. I did go on my first date with a guy during my uni years, but we didn't get much further than a first date because he wanted a serious relationship and I wasn't ready for one. But he did help me come out of the closet so I'm grateful for that.

What are your plans for becoming boyfriend material?

 

Is it couples at you school you are referring to?
If yes, alot of teen date just for the sake of dating or to just get over it not being single.
There of course are a few who are serious but as our brain stops developing at age 25,
it's really hard to figure out how mentally mature anybody is until that age.
So don't stress about teen couples who tend to not last a lifetime or end in marriage.

You are only at the starting line in terms of the dating world, no need to rush or compare yourself to other teens.
I know that's something you may think is stupid to write.
And just because somebody has been dating since hitting puberty don't automatically
make them a better partner as adults, because they may not give themselve time
to get to know and fully understand themselve at a deep level when they are single.

And @Joe2001, isn't there any youth lgbt group/meet up close to where you live?
Don't waist the possibility or you're regret it later.

You really do sound like you are on a higher mature level than most of you peers.
Just stick to you values and boundarys not matter what other tells you
and I'm sure you will have luck when you graduate and start dating.

 

It sounds like you've got it all planned out then. Good luck with your endeavors!

 

That won't hold you back - I know a gay guy in person who has legit the highest squeakiest voice I've ever heard in my life, it's like he went through reverse puberty somehow. He's also one of the most popular people I know, has had a bunch of boyfriends and tons of app hookups, and his career is in public speaking/politics/LGBT activism so his voice is used all day every day.

 

True, but in this case he honestly sounds like an 8 year old feminine gay mickey mouse.