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Whats your attraction?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by PinkieKeen, Feb 25, 2014.

  1. Ruby Dragon

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    Tall and stocky men are attractive to me. A nice smile and friendly eyes (colour eyes doesn't matter). I also prefer darker hair over blonde. And I prefer a clean-shaven face too. A neatly trimmed beard is acceptable but no moustache
     
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    Well darn, I don't have anything to add now.
     
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    I like big cuddly people who give awesome bear hugs and can put up with my b.s.

    Also, thighs. Who needs a pillow when you have a warm thigh? The quality of warmth--physical warmth and emotional warmth.
     
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    Thought of something. Let me put together my perfect guy..
    anywhere from 5 to 6 ft tall (though id prefer taller)
    Longish hair. (between ears to shoulders) Black or any bright colours.
    Curves
    Piercings
    Kinda skinny with Not many muscles
    Nice, angular face and chin
    Slender neck with nice definition
    Small cute button nose
    Maybe some facial hair but not much anywhere else.
    Big, gorgeous brown eyes.
    Then give him some tight fighting clothes and skinny jeans

    Smart, but not too low of a voice.
    Awkward and sometimes dark sense of humour
    Smiles alot
    Kind, loving and caring

    Thats pretty much about it :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: i dream of finding a guy like that.. but im honestly not that picky :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: personality is really what matters most to me.
     
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    i like big hands and feet, pretty face, toned body for a guy
    I like healthy ass, pretty smile, pretty face, and great personality for a girl
     
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    Eyes, mouth, height (need to be same or taller which isnt hard as im really small XD ) and big hands <3
     
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    In guys: Nice hair, abs and tall height.

    In girls: Blonde, slim figure, cute voice.
     
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    The face, before everything else. Not a face I find beautiful, but a face I'm drawn to for no obvious reason.
     
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    girls- butt (i'm a butt girl), good thighs, good hair, someone funny... and when their eyes light up when they laugh---- cliche haha

    boys- a lot of personality, good hair, arm muscles... and please PLEASE don't ask me why... but i find it really sexy when they clench their jaw muscles taylor lautner style!!!
     
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    I'll do what @PinkieKeen did. My perfect guy:
    Tall maybe around 5'11 up (so I can snuggle against their chest and shoulder)
    Slim
    Well muscled but lean (not bulky, but some definition is nice)
    Slightly messy hair (nothing longer than around earlobe length)
    Full lips (it's cute if they sometimes bite it when nervous or unsure)
    Big eyes that catch your attention (brown, or green especially although blue is hot on the right people)
    Clean shaven (I just don't like facial hair)
    Athletic (swimmers and runners especially)
    Intelligent (I like discussing things)
    Funny (not really a dark sense of humour)
    Polite (self descriptive really)
    Loving (not afraid of some public physical contact, hugging, snuggling, and a gentle kiss)
    Enjoys movies and video games
    Someone who can take charge, more "dominant" if you will

    That's a long list...
     
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    Honestly, I look at hair first. Something about long, beautiful hair draws me in like a moth. But then there is the traditional eyes (green eyes are my addcition). Laugh is also something that immediately attracts me.

    As for body, I tend to go for relatively skinny girls, though I'm a fan of a big butt. Never been much of a boob chick myself.
     
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    Usually the first thing I look at is someone's eyes. I love brown and blue eyes. Another thing that really draws me to someone is their skin tone, may seem kind of odd. I just love people who have I guess you could say a mutual skin tone, not black or white but people who have something in the middle, anyone who's mixed, Hispanic, Asian, etc. I just find that really attractive.
     
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    Hm.
     
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    Eyes. I have noticed that every single person has something unique about their eyes.

    Lips and smile, and a great personality. loving heart, truthful, trustworthy.

    I also will admit i like a nice rear end.
     
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    Men: older, big (even with a belly), shaved head, beard, cuddly and sweet. Nice butt is a plus.

    Girls: my age or younger, long hair, nice lips, something "wild" in the eyes, independency.

    In both cases, I must see goodness in their eyes.
     
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    I'm afraid I'm one that goes for the stereotypical gym body. I do like abs and strong arms which is why when I go to the gym myself I can't wait to get into that locker room for a peak...

    I've had crushes on guys with both blonde and dark hair, but I do like a good smile. Height I also go for with a nice rounded arse to match. Blue jeans are also a MASSIVE turn on- especially if they make him bulge. I don't like fashion jeans- the typical, classic stonewash is enough to set me off.

    Weirdly (and don't ask why!) I also find if a man can whistle using his fingers, that can also turn me on!
     
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    Good with his mouth?



    Whoops, I asked.
     
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    First couple things I notice is face & hair. I really couldn't say exactly what makes a a guy or girl cute/hot to me though.

    As far a looks go I kinda have a thing for..
    Wavy/sorta-curly hair
    Blond hair
    Blue eyes
    Average height/weight
    No facial hair
    (none of those are truly set in stone things though)
     
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    dark hair and amazing eyes I always notice the eyes and other facial features, somewhat athletic I love abs(is that weird?), would like to actually have a healthy body myself and working towards it, and maybe a few piercings and tattoos sometimes not always. I don't really have many specifics those are juat some basics, it really depends on the person.
     
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    Intelligence... Hallelujah, talk nerdy to me!!

    ^ aside from that the dorky, hard working, outdoors type?

    Looks?? Eh??