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What to identify as socially?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Josh21, Mar 14, 2011.

  1. AtmaWeapon

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    If you prefer and are primarily attracted to the same sex, then you are gay, as far as I am concerned. It doesn't mean there aren't exceptions to that or that you don't possess your own bi-curious tendencies.

    I mean, I would be lying if I said I never wanted a man, but how much compared to a woman, well, then I would be lying, but when you fall for someone you fall for them. You like who you like, simple as that, regardless of preference.
     
  2. Foxywolf

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    I just tend to round up. I may occasionally find a guy attractive, but the chances of me ever wanting to be in a relationship with one - slim. Also it makes it less confusing for whoever I tell. I told my mom how some people were heteroflexible (meaning they are straight but open to a gay relationship) and so I said I was homoflexible (gay but I would stay open to a straight relationship).
    To my friends I just told them I was 90% gay. I think I got the message across. I guess I could say I am 'bi' leaning towards girls but I don't really want the label of bi. That's just my opinion.