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What is hard about dating you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Sealgirl19, Sep 21, 2016.

  1. Mahidevran

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    I don't like sex.
    once I feel comfortable with someone I may be fine with cuddling, kissing and maybe some touching, but nothing more. just don't get inside me nor expect me to get inside you.
     
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    I tend to behave pretty weird. At first I'm closed to be obssessed with the person I admire. But after a short while (always depending on the persons reaction, if they're Show me lots of love it's faster as if they'd stay distant) I 'burn out', like I don't keep in touch and prefer to be alone. I won't show up or call you enough, maybe you'll hear nothing from me for a week or more at all. I think this would be pretty frustrating and possible ruin the relationship. That's why it's important to keep everything platonic. Sex is also impossible and would cause an immediate breakup. So yeah the whole dating thing is one huge problem.
     
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    I like to debate, and sometimes I can't help getting into arguments. However, when I disagree with someone, that doesn't mean I dislike them. In fact, I respect people who strongly disagree with me more than people who just sit on the fence.
     
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    My self hate, depression, and low self esteem.
     
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    i am actually really clingy but in my battle to avoid that i go the other way and almost avoid it
     
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    I'm very reserved so sometimes I won't open up. It's nothing against anyone it's just I don't ever open up sometimes but it depends on the person and if I feel I can tell them about anything. I can be stubborn and I'm very aloof.
     
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    Maybe I'm too romantic.
    I'm I fan of chivalry, but that seems to not be the "in" thing anymore.
     
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    I require attention and don't like making the first move a lot of the time. Also I have low self esteem and can therefore develop some trust issues.
     
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    Probably the biggest obstacle would be my partner. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    if I may add something, some find my sense of humour and some other things distasteful and it may be a big turn off in some cases.
     
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    I'll be honest, I'm pretty clingy and somewhat paranoid. I definitely like attention on a regular basis. I also get down on myself sometimes.
     
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    Oh god, where do I start...I'm shy...very, very shy. So I will never in a million years approach someone.
     
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    I don't open up to people very easily
    I suck at having a conversation, communicating that is
    I like heavy metal (people don't really think it's an issue, but it is when most of the lgbt community listens to pop, and discriminates you for it)
    My unintentional heavy breathing
    I constantly doubt people, especially when they compliment me
    I'm prone to people's energy, if that makes sense
    The social stigma of having an STD

    yea... my family said they will throw a fucking party just for the guy who becomes my boyfriend lol
     
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    My narcissism.
     
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    I like heavy music :icon_wink
     
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    Aside from a repelling and romantically oblivious personality?

    I dislike sex, or physical touch in general. I am absentminded and selfish. I don't do emotions very well. This together has resulted in zero prospects.
     
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    I am weird, can be loud, I have hearing impairment and foot problems, I like too much stuff that is different. I'm very independent, don't like to rely on people to help me out, I can get a little obsessive, also I'm very kinky when it comes to sex,
     
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    I'm quite selfish, I require a lot of 'me' time as I need solitude to recharge myself. Ideally, I'd love to find someone similar to be in a full time relationship .....For 2-3 days a week maximum​ !
     
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    one more thing, I'm a shitty person with not nice personality.
     
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    I get jealous easily. Although I manage it quite well and do not cause huge dramas (I hate drama), I will definitely get jealous and I will definitely mention it. xD But I accept that flaw in myself, so that's a start.

    I also play tons of video games, which could either be heavenly for some, or a nightmare for others.