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What are you thinking?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Mirko, Feb 28, 2017.

  1. Canterpiece

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    Me: I can be confident.

    (Talks to a cute woman who I know is single, bisexual, and has shown some interest in me before)

    Also me (internally): Oh no I think she likes me. Run. Abort mission. What am I doing? I can't do this. *Overall gay panic*
     
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    I think I'm starting to crush on a person that kind of looks like my old crush. Both were unattainable. Will I die without making any sexual debut, or unwillingly date any person out of loneliness?
     
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    I think I need nicer weather so I can paint RC trucks and parts. Also the MRI tech I saw today was kind of handsome, very much a silver fox though.
     
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    Are you not into silver fox men?
     
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    I have no idea what to do with my life.
     
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    If you're still not sure who to vote for, I actually just heard of Vote Compass that'll show you which party lines up with your views the most.
    https://votecompass.cbc.ca/canada/
     
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    After rereading it, it isn't worded really well. Didn't mean to imply I was uninterested due to his age.
     
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    I often get the feeling that I might not make it through life.
     
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    Maybe we should hang out more (just casually). Even if it turns out that she doesn't like me that way, at least I'd have a new friend. We share some interests so I could see myself being friends with her easily enough.
     
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    Well, its like one of my math teachers once said: do something; do anything! just don't do nothing
     
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    Sort of sad today. A good friend from work (my husband refers to him as my work husband) is moving away. We went out for drinks for the last time last night and it was just sort of touching. He's an amazing guy and I was really fortunate to have in my life even if only for a year and a half. Sort of makes me think of all the little ways I could have better taken advantage of what we shared. Sort of sad, but in a way one can at least learn from...
     
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    I ended up voting in the advance polls and going with the one I agreed with the most and trusted the leader the most. Hopefully I do't regret not strategic voting.
     
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    While my dad is really nice to me and bf and no longer says anti-gay stuff, I really wish he'd stop watering gay stuff down to make himself and others more comfortable. Calling a (almost) 2 year relationship a friendship feels like a slap in the face and downplays the significance imho. Depending on how sharp whoever he invited for Thanksgiving are, they are in for a surprise lmao
     
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    Friend: Why do I get the feeling you like a girl?

    Me (internally): Oh no he's onto me. Lie, deny everything.

    Also me: Bursts into uncomfortable laughter and turns red. ...No....

    I had one job. :face_palm:
     
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    I hate when my hairstylist cuts my hair too short. I'm trying to get a specific style, and I went to get a trim for maintenance and he cut the sides too short. Now I got to wait a few months for it to grow back and ask for someone else next time I get my hair cut.
     
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    It can be hard to come out during an unexpected moment. In some ways, your friend opened the door; if you feel comfortable, trust him enough, in coming out to him, maybe try saying something next time you spend some time together.
     
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    Greta Thunberg's coming to Alberta, and all the rednecks are losing their minds.
    At least she's stepping up and trying to make some changes, it's more than most people are doing, and she's only 16.
     
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    Oh, I'm already out to them, I've been out to them for quite a few years. However, they're the type of friend who may try to interfere and/or pester you about how things with your crush are going. That's why I was initially hesitant to tell them. However, I did a poor job of hiding this information and even if I hadn't...they tend to know me too well for me to hide anything for long.
     
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    Oh I see. Hopefully your friend won't pester you too much about it then and give you the privacy or space you would like to have. :slight_smile:
     
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    It is really cold and rainy out. I'm glad that I'm in for the night.