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  1. Colours

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    Okay last month I set a goal for myself: I wanted to come out to my 3 close straight friends before the end of the year. I kind of let go of that because I'm so unsure. I wanted to do it in person but it will be so damn awkward, I can NOT do it when I'm with all 3 of them (we always hang out with the 4 of us). Sometimes one of them isn't there, but even then. They'll make some kind of 'gay joke' and even though I know they don't mean it in that way it just makes me chicken out every time. And how am I going to bring it up anyway.

    So I figured that somewhere during this week I'm going to send each of them a text message, I could of course meet up with just one of them, but there's really only one of them I've done that with and the nerves would kill me. So I decided. I also know who's going to be first, the one who I've known the longest and whose sister is a lesbian. Even though he calls things 'gay' and all, I just know he will understand.

    I wonder how much longer I'm going to postpone this... =p
     
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    ^^ when I said that I did not mean "I want to overheat so badly at work that I nearly throw up and almost pass out to the point where I get sent home an hour into my three hour shift" that is NOT what I meant. That is, however, what happened.
     
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    Mother: "Why aren't you dressed?"
    Me: *blankly stares at her*
    Mother: "You know we have our circuit overseer's visit tonight!"
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    Mother: "It's Tuesday! Meeting night!"
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    Mother: *walks off* "If he doesn't do anything spiritually, he's gonna be in trouble when Armageddon comes..."
    Me: *giggles*
     
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    We're supposed to get a pretty big storm tomorrow night into Thursday. I have therapy on Thursday. If he cancels, I won't see him for three weeks...I REALLY need to have therapy on Thursday. :frowning2:
     
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    Just me and my ukulele for Christmas. Everything's nice~
     
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    I'll be your therapist that day if he cancels on you!!
     
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    Awww...you're sweet. :slight_smile: I rather suck at therapy, though...I wouldn't wish being my therapist on my worst enemy...lol.
     
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    Hating on the world for allowing me to meet someone so amazing but making it so we live so far away from each other that it is a struggle to be with each other. I would much rather be single then feel the pain of being away from a person I care for so much!
     
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    I'm not certain what kind of therepy you are going to, but when I went to therepy a few years ago for some troubling times in my life, the therepist was mostly an independent ear. If you need a shoulder to cry on, or someone to lend you an ear, I'm available too.
     
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    Graveyard shift tonight. Joy to the world...
     
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    I'm thinking of getting off my arse and making my signature...
     
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    As is well basically, these whole goddamn forums. :slight_smile:

    My thought: Apparently I like being flirty. Who would've thunk it, considering I've never flirted with well, anyone. The shit you learn talking about gay stuff with your straight friends... :icon_wink
     
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    I'm going for anxiety and depression...but we're getting into some parts of my past that are difficult to talk about at best. I tend to shut down on him and not talk. He's very patient with me, but it makes the process tedious. I just get to a point where I can't talk anymore.

    And, thanks. :slight_smile: I appreciate the offer. This board is so supportive and wonderful.
     
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    My neighbor is an idiot. He has set his car alarm off 10 times tonight.
     
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    I love this board. :slight_smile: You guys are fantastic. I'm so much happier since finding this place. It's so nice to have a place to talk freely and feel like I belong...
     
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    I'm sick and tired of feeling like a third and/or fifth wheel...

    Honestly, I'd prefer if you either fully included me or never spoke to me again.
     
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    I think it might be time to mention that to the person (if you haven't done so yet).... (*hug*)
     
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    I hate when my face decides to tell everyone how stressed and upset I've been. I haven't had acne break-outs like this in a while. It may be hormones, lack of sleep, or stress... all I know is it's annoying and looks bad.
     
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    I wonder if the cute girl that does parking enforcement is single... :icon_wink
     
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    Humm.. so far we are not going to get the snow expected out of this storm.
     
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