Trying to understand butch lesbians as a straight man

Nightdream · Jul 24, 2014

fastline1 said: ↑

Pig - This is purely something that is not meant as disrespect, but something that is just for me. I am afraid I now carry the notion that if a potential partner also likes women, there will always be the possibility that she will wake up like my ex did and say "hey, this hetero relationship is no longer working for me, I want another woman".

I don't expect this thinking to set well here but just something that I feel will mean a better fit for me as a person. Someone that is 100% hetero.

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stocking - no, I am not saying her relationship not working has ANYTHING to do with men. I am just saying my ex acts like a grown up, with a personal business, motherhood, etc. The new partner seems to act more like a 16yo boy trying to impress her by doing stupid stunts on a motorcycle, hurting herself, etc. "watch this" type of behavior. I am very confident this behavior is NOT impressing my ex but likely scaring her. She has always preferred mature acting people around her, women or men.
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Just be aware that the next straight woman you meet might end up by betraying you for another guy.

stocking · Jul 24, 2014

MyID said: ↑

fastline1 said: ↑

Pig - This is purely something that is not meant as disrespect, but something that is just for me. I am afraid I now carry the notion that if a potential partner also likes women, there will always be the possibility that she will wake up like my ex did and say "hey, this hetero relationship is no longer working for me, I want another woman".

I don't expect this thinking to set well here but just something that I feel will mean a better fit for me as a person. Someone that is 100% hetero.

---------- Post added 22nd Jul 2014 at 12:57 PM ----------

stocking - no, I am not saying her relationship not working has ANYTHING to do with men. I am just saying my ex acts like a grown up, with a personal business, motherhood, etc. The new partner seems to act more like a 16yo boy trying to impress her by doing stupid stunts on a motorcycle, hurting herself, etc. "watch this" type of behavior. I am very confident this behavior is NOT impressing my ex but likely scaring her. She has always preferred mature acting people around her, women or men.
Click to expand...

Just be aware that the next straight woman you meet might end up by betraying you for another guy.
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