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Trans Romance

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by phoenix42, Nov 28, 2011.

  1. J Snow

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    So, while I'm still not sure if I really have plans to transition or not, but I have talked to my bf about it. We've been dating for over a year, and he's head over heels for me, and has expressed nothing but support. He's said multiple time he'd love me and want to be with me no matter what I look like. I do have concerns about him being sexually attracted to me though =/
     
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    J Snow if you like him and he means what he says then he sounds like a keeper.
     
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    Thanks, we have quite a few issues, but he's a very loving person that I know really cares about me, and I don't have any plans to end things any time soon.

    Still every time I ask about him still being sexually attracted to me, he just says I should do what makes me happy, or he'd still love me. Kind of dancing around this issue. However, if I were to go for it, I would really want to experience sex with someone who sees me as sexy =/
     
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    So while I hate to double post... BUMPIDY BAMP!!!

    I really wanna know what anyone thinks about this situation. I know I may be jumping the gun a bit, I still haven't made up my mind if I'm even trans. But c'mon, he's gay? Could he really still be sexually attracted to me if I did decide to take action....?
     
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    Honestly, I have no idea. This is a bit outside my range of experience.

    But one thing I have learned after a few relationships is that there is plenty of fish in the sea ...