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Thoughts On Porn

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BoiGeorge, Dec 22, 2012.

  1. Olivier

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    It's not for everyone, I for one think it's much more sick to judge people who have the courage to do porn, I believe in not judging ANYONE on their personal decisions.
     
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    nah, i think you are pretty wise for a teenager.
    i know it is "wrong" per say...but dang it looks fun!
    my favorites however continue to be a couple who just fuck the regular way, not oral, and face each other, and start and end with kisses. idk, somehow with all the YEAH let her have it and moan! I still see that gentle look come over their faces and think Gee maybe they are in love? Then I wish I had a gf who loved me that much so I could kiss and fuck her, and let her know she is the only one I want to do it with.
    I do think it is degrading...dont think helps morals...dont think it makes women look very much more than a sex object, and yeah since watching it I see girls more as somebody I could get sex from for fun.
    But deep in my heart I would like to fall in love, get married, and have kids.

    PS. Some gay ones where 2 men just do it or frot but NOTHING gross like oral stuff no sucking, it can look just as loving sometimes. If they look like they love each other not just fucking for money, it has an impact on me.

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    It is not always "courage" that motivates a person to perform sex acts in porn you know that right?

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    Exactly!

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    Yeah, I turn off fast with BSDM, and fake rape...
    however I was ASKED by a lesbian if we ever did it to rape her in her sleep so when she awoke she already would be in the midst of penetration. I was pretty shocked.

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    so you are saying because we do wrong we can't point out something is wrong?
    so we should just let wrong build up higher then because it is wrong to say anything is wrong?
    how far should we let it go?
    we got rape and animals and torture...how about murder?
    it aint wrong...we can't judge...lots of peeps murder...it just happens...let it...is that what you are saying here?
     
  3. mickjagger

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    what kind of porn do you guys like?

    i used to like straight porn, but now i have started watching gay porn (but it's really gross for me sometimes). i also especially enjoy watching males have orgasms.
     
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    I can't say I'm the biggest fan of the stuff. It just encourages the so called "idealistic" body and penis size when really it's completely unrealistic. It also creates an unrealistic image of sex, almost like having to put on a dominatrix outfit every time you wish to make love. I am completely aware that it won't be easy my first time and that there will be some problems and pain, but if I only learnt from porn, I would have thought that it was plain sailing. And I believe that sex is something to be cherished and is an act of loyalty and compassion. Not just loyalty to your next pay cheque.
     
  5. FallenAngel

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    It is against my faith as well, BUT it's awesome (to a certain extent). I'm not crazy about the fake stuff, but about a year ago I found a site that is amazing. Real, natural stuff. People posting pictures or videos about new experiences because they want to, not because they have to for money.
     
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    It's not something I neither like nor have an interest in, and it has no effect on me at all. As long as the subjects are adults who consented to be filmed or to have their pictures taken, though, I'm not against it for others.
     
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    I only watch porn sometimes. And I tend to only watch amateur stuff. I dont like the hardcore stuff. Its just too gross and mechanical. I like the emotional as well as the physical part of sex. And the hardcore stuff is basically just the physical act. I think the amateur stuff makes it easier to fantasize about the kind of situations I want to be in.

    But I dont think pornography is wrong. When it depicts demeaning or derogatory acts, thats where I draw the line.
     
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    Each to their own I say
     
  9. justinf

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    So agreed!

    Let me have my porn, damnit! Don't watch it if you don't want to, but there's nothing wrong with me loving it! :eusa_danc
     
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    excuse me but solitaire degrades and objectifies playing cards how could you be so inconsiderate? you're not even playing with REAL CARDS and it's all so superficial with all the sounds and hints they have oh my god

    Screw the pretty morals and the self-righteousness. Porn is fine.

    I also find it kind of weird that people are making topics on here to ask for your opinion on something while at the same time, are trying to degrade and dilute your own opinion, even if it's not outright intentional as it. Maybe it's just me.
     
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    Not at all. What I am saying is that porn does not put any more false thoughts in your mind than a modern hollywood movie or the newest fantasy novel. The modern world is built around fiction. We are surrounded by televisions, by video games, by movies, music, and media. Our mental awareness is completely centered around our ability to differentiate between what is real and what we use for "entertainment". The vast majority of us are able to comprehend this naturally.

    If you turn to porn looking for the answers to lifes questions, if you fail to defferentiate between 'entertainment' and reality, you will be faced with false informations. JUST as you would if you look to movies, tv shows, or any other media.

    The reality is that the use of porn is no different that any other form of entertainment. The bare mention of 'sex' just always raise a ton of hoopla.
     
  12. OtakuCrazed

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    If people want to enjoy porn, then they can.
    But it's stupid to expect that kind of a sexual relationship with a real person.
     
  13. Lux

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    I personally never watch porn but I personally don't see much wrong with it, if the actors weren't underaged or somehow conned into it.

    I also enjoy a good sex scene in movies. Can't lie about that haha
     
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    I see nothing wrong with it and also believe it can be helpful at times. I will agree some of the practices in the porn industry are horrible but that can be said about any industry. I'll use me and my GF for example I have quiet a few kinks that either she's not into or physically unable to do because of medical conditions so instead of going out and finding someone who would do what I would like I watch porn rub one out and I am satisfied.

    As for objectifying women I don't look at a woman walking down the street and just think of her as a sexual object and nothing more. That's not saying I don't find random people sexually attractive. I just know that this is more there.

    So while I can understand how some people view it as harmful I will disagree
     
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    I like it obviously, because I'm a teenage boy. XD There's certain types I like too, but it's naïve to think that you'll have sexual relations like that with someone you love.
     
  16. biggayguy

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    I don't do porn any more. It got boring after seeing so much of it. Not even,

    backdoor sluts 9


    a fictional porno featured on South Park
    Backdoor Sluts 9 makes Crotch Capers 3 look like a childs movie.
     
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    Child porn, hard-core stuff and the fake, often ridiculous stuff that's out there is just horrible in my opinion.

    But amateur stuff, the sorts of sites that show people engaging in consensual and non-degrading sex...don't see what's wrong with that.
     
  18. john1b1

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    I don't think it's immoral or anything, just kinda gross. I don't get why people like it so much.
     
  19. FreeFlow9917

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    Not really, hell some porn sites don't even care about age because they know kids like to touch themselves and age shouldn't matter... unless it's some fucked porn as i've seen i.e. vomit, feet, and furry.

    Well for me, porn is a gateway that let's you easily orgasm to arousal and it doesn't make me want sex, hell it makes me repulsed by sex after ive masturbated to porn such as gay furry doujinshi or shotacon doujinshi.