My wife and I really don't have any problem with this at all. All we want is for him to be successful and happy but I am freaked out. He has never been on a date before so how would he know? He had mad sexting with a female a year ago where his Mom and I thought we maybe had to step in but it didn't happen. Is he really gay or is he discovering what he really is? He is VERY cerebral and wants to be a Network Administrator. BTW, he was nervous, but very comfortable telling us he thinks he is gay. I was blown by his confidence, honored by his trust in his parents, and supportive. Please tell me what I should do. I feel I should just drop it and let it take its course.