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Small Victories

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kasey, Dec 11, 2014.

  1. Kasey

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    1. I have confidence in my self from never being misgendered.
    2. I get told I'm pretty a lot lately.
    3. I just have more self confidence and happiness with my appearance.
     
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    Got that lovely short haircut. I adore it and don't regret a single thing. Today was one of my happiest days in recent memory. I felt confident, amazing, and it kept most dysphoria at bay. I went through the school day with my mind in this happy daze. Who knew one thing could make such a big change? I'm glad. Next step binder? :slight_smile:
     
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    My crush said I remind her of Lindsey Stirling! And that I look like her a bit xD

    ---------- Post added 24th Sep 2015 at 06:51 PM ----------

    Oops! I didn't see that it was Transgender successes! I thought it was just successes in general xD ...just saw the forum it was in..*facepalm* how could I not notice? xD
     
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    Anyone can share here. That's more than welcome.
     
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    Actually had two small victories today, first I got accepted by the gender team so I'm now officially on gender therapy and second I passed today! Just love it when people call me ma'am
     
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    and you have never needed to.(*hug*)
     
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    Until you're sure of yourself it's a coping mechanism.
     
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    absolutly, but you've seemed so confident, and femine since i have known you that it never occured to me that you were anyone but Kasey, a strong, attractive, very intelligent lady.:icon_bigg
     
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    My new friends gave me my first binder today and I'm crying.
     
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    Awesome! :grin:
     
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    Well, my one of my best friend's gave me a nice dress that I'm planning on wearing to prom now. When I tried it on, I took a picture of myself in it and everyone that has seen it has said that with longer hair id pass which makes me really excited considering this dress is strapless and light colored. I'm so stoked for prom now. I just have to come out to my parents first and then everything can start falling into place!(!)
     
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    That's awesome! Have fun at prom!
     
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    Finally bought an epilator today. It shall be my new weapon in the everlasting war against body hair.
     
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    sounds painfull:eek:, let us know how it turns out/ what the process is like. for those of us fighting the same battle.
     
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    I know they're painful as all hell, but I'd suffer much, much worse to get rid of body hair for longer than a day. I'm too lazy to shave every square centimeter of my body every other day. Just gimme a stick to bite on and a bottle of whiskey and let's go.
     
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    I've been going to a professional laser hair removal service for a year now. Facial hair is difficupt to entirely remove but I have AMAZING results on my chest after 3 passes. If I ever get implants or hormones it will be nice to not have to get those puppies zapped later.

    I'm not sure how good a home kit is though.
     
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    As soon as my psychiatrist gets her thumb out of her ass and I get into the system, I'll eventually have laser treatment paid for, but until then I want something to work with.
     
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    I'll have to ask my therapist if that can be something I can submit myself. I see them Thursday.
     
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    I passed for the first time ever! My dad and I were getting lunch and some guy was talking to my dad and referred to us as "you and your son."
     
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    YAY CONGRATS:eusa_clap:slight_smile: