Shame

Thanks, killingmoon. Any possibility you could share the names of some forums? Or is that against the rules here?

I was able to speak to my therapist about the shame I've been feeling, today. She suggested I try to let go of my secondary layer of shame (the shame about the shame) and just allow myself to feel this way without judging myself, because everyone goes through it at some point. That was helpful and I will do my best to follow that advice.

Though I was able to tell her about the shame, and about how I am doubting that I'll ever end up with a man, I still can't seem to say the words "I think I'm gay" or "I'm a lesbian" to her. She still thinks I'm questioning heavily, and oddly that makes me feel like I should still be questioning.. possibly because I get the impression she thinks I'm bisexual. It's all so very confusing :bang: