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Scared of never finding someone?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Ameryllis, Jul 10, 2016.

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  1. theskylitup

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    I'm worried but not exactly scared, but I'm still young and honestly prefer cats over guys
     
    #21 theskylitup, Jul 24, 2016
  2. White Knight

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    That thing... being uncertain of future and giving to your pessimistic side lives with you through ages.

    While never given in to fear/scare I get that moods from time to time. However I like to think I am still not ready for the relationship I wanted and life taking its time to perfect conditions for that match. Making me see my errors, discover things about people, life...

    Life is not a sprint, it is a marathon. So it is best to take your time and save your strength/worries for times that counts.
     
    #22 White Knight, Jul 25, 2016
  3. Fighter694

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    I often wonder about it! What if I am NEVER going to be able to find someone, what if I can never move into a more accepting society. What if I am too old when conditions get better. Then I realize that when I think about being in a relationship I fear ending up in a divorce. So I've decided that if all goes south I can still adopt a child and live for him/her and engage in philanthropy. Probably eventually someone might spot me in the crowd.
     
    #23 Fighter694, Jul 25, 2016
  4. indeed28

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    I worry about this alot
     
    #24 indeed28, Jul 25, 2016
  5. Alexrocks1253

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    I feel the same way as well...
     
    #25 Alexrocks1253, Jul 25, 2016
  6. Ashley2103

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    Yep, but I try to tell myself if I don't find someone its better being single than being stuck with someone not compatible.
     
    #26 Ashley2103, Jul 25, 2016
  7. EmilyFK

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    me cus i cant find a girl that likes me back
     
    #27 EmilyFK, Jul 26, 2016
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