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Rim job

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by person57, Dec 9, 2013.

  1. person57

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    I have a feeling this thread might get removed but in case if it doesn't I have a question for you people. For those of you who gave and received a rim job, did you prefer giving, receiving, neither, or both. For those of you who haven't given and received a rim job, do you think you'd prefer giving one, receiving one, neither, or both? I haven't given or received a rim job, but when I find true love, I'd definitely prefer to give my man a rim job. In my opinion, giving rim jobs seems way hotter. Receiving rim jobs also seem pretty nice though.
     
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    Never given nor received and doubt I ever will. Too much of a gross-out for me.
     
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    As long as details aren't graphic, the thread probably won't be removed. People get polled on their (actual or anticipated) enjoyment of sexual activities all the time.

    Provided an oral dam... Maybe. I just happen to feel that I don't want my mouth to be near someone's anus. Other parts of my body? Different story.

    My advice is to try to enjoy sex without doing that sort of thing. Absent that, I really recommend vaccination for both Hepatitis A and B.
     
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    I'm a fairly open-minded individual sexually, but rim jobs are something that I will definitely not do, giving or receiving.
     
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    Omg I'm the only one that's into rim jobs I feel like a whore....:/
     
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    No you're not, some people do, some don't. I don't even want that thought in my head personally. But hey, who am I to judge what two consenting people like to do in bed?
     
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    Actually, me and my partner both like to give and get them with each other, so it works out well! Plus, I like to pretend to be a 'pet' puppy, as silly as that sounds, so of course that also makes it fun. I like licking!

    They feel amazing, and it really isn't gross if you do a good job of cleaning the area. To be honest, bad breath can be worse, in my opinion.

    It really tends to drive a person almost to a frenzy, I've found...

    The main thing is to be safe...for me, it took being in a monogamous relationship long enough where I knew and trusted my mate, and knew we were both clean. But no need to feel bad about wanting to do this, it's fun!


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    As long as my partner and I were both clean, I'd like to try it, both giving and receiving. The idea sounds very erotic to me.
     
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    Er, guys.. what's... a rim job?
     
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    I don't find it particularly gross, and if both partners are clean, then why not?

    I think it's also a pretty intimate thing. I mean, who really gets to do that very often, and who even gets to see that? Even the owner of said butt doesn't see it. :lol:
     
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    Mouth to butthole oral sex.

    I've always found it amusing how people are so keen to say 'they've got to be really clean' as if people are going to consider it when they aren't clean.
     
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    In all fairness, I have no interest in giving, but I think receiving seems erotic...
     
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    This is sort of the thing I feel I'd prefer in theory as opposed to practice...

    What kind of asshole would do rimming without bothering to... Least put saran wrap over that shit.

    (puns not intended)
     
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    Oh no no no, there are TONS of people who love doing it.

    I'm not into it. I am such a MASSIVE, MASSIVE, germaphobe that if my boyfriend gave me a rim job I'd never be able to kiss him again! (okay, maybe not for a week)

    The funny thing is, when you're all worked up and in bed with someone, your gross factor level like plummets into the basement. I am sitting here now thinking "I don't really think blowjobs are too hot either" but once you get all hot and bothered you're like "Take your pants off and COME HERE!"(!)
     
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    I can take it or leave it. Rimming is something I'll give or receive depending on what the other guy(s) is in to. It's OK to receive but there are any number of things I'd rather have done to that part of me. I don't object to giving but it doesn't arouse me either. I had one long term lover who really enjoyed it so I regularly rimmed him. The turn on for me was his enjoyment, not the act itself.
     
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    I tried it a few times to see what it was like, it was boring and awkward, hard to get in there and hurt my face and neck. I was probably not in a good position to do it without hurting myself though. I didn't really enjoy it but he did. Laying down and having the other person sit on your face is a lot more comfortable, I found.
     
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    I'd like to receive it if I was with a long term partner and possibly give (but I'd much prefer to receive). It's all down to personal preference I guess. We're all different
     
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    I don't really think it would be my thing, personally. Giving one or receiving one.