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Pregnant and scared

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by stocking, Apr 1, 2014.

  1. stocking

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    the truth is I actually got drunk and had sex with a guy I'm ashamed to admit that .
     
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    Organise an appointment with an abortion provider (make sure it's genuine), and if you need to get a day off work, organise that as soon as possible. If your parents will try to force you to keep it, then you're probably going to need to do something as soon as possible.

    You don't want the child, so if your parents are going to guilt you or even force you to keep it, then make sure they don't find out. Don't let anyone bully you into doing anything.
     
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    Ok what sucks about this is people are gonna start calling me bi now because I slept with a guy while drunk and traitor :icon_sad:
     
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    Then they're foolish and stupid and deserve a good talking down to. This is your business and nobody else's. You slept with a guy. That's it. That doesn't prove your sexuality to be a lie or that you're a traitor; what loyalty do you owe, anyway? Your actions don't mean that you are a bad person or a liar.
     
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    Please don't try to scare them into getting an abortion, either. I did not guilt her, btw.

    Here's a deal: you give your advice, I give mine, and we leave it at that, okay? Thank you.

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    That's what I thought, although I wasn't clear on the details. I figure that otherwise, there wouldn't be very many babies to adopt...

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    Honestly, that should be the least of your concerns, at the moment... Forget about those people.
     
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    you didn't scare me if you wanted to know so guys don't fight please
     
  7. You should only get an abortion if you're comfortable with it. Since the pregnancy is so early, you can still have a chemically induced abortion via pill. If you want to someone to talk to you can call the National Abortion Federation 1-800-772-9100

    Best of luck. And don't be ashamed of yourself.
     
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    I'd like to inform you guys that she's a indeed 10000% it is an April Fools joke and you all were fooled :grin:

    I'm so mean sorry if I upset anyone but I did get most you pretty good
     
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    :confused:
     
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    I really hate you stocking :lol:

    Thank God that it's April Fools, though. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Though given it is the second here, I did forget that it might be that.
     
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    I'm sorry apostrophied I hurt you the most out of this joke but if it makes you feel better your advice was very helpful

    can we still be friends (*hug*)

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    lol :grin:

    I feel bad because I caused you two to fight
     
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    This is why I didn't comment on it lol
     
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    So do u want a boy or a girl?
     
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    Haha yeah we can. I'm glad my advice was helpful, pass it on to someone who might need it maybe? :slight_smile:
     
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    I will hun (*hug*) I'm sorry again

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    well if I decide to have kids in the future I want a baby girl
     
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    Lol, as if it were something you get to decide. :wink:
     
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    You're not gonna have an abortion r u?
     
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    Thank god this is a joke, I was almost scared to death
     
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    Wait u gotta be shitting me u were trolling? Man I can't believe how gullible I am. I feel so stupid now.
     
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    Wow, I'm shocked this wasn't real *sarcasm*