Please help! in love with my "straight" friend

Hiya mate,
I'm sorry but I don't have anything to say that hasn't already been said. I have gone through and am still going through a similar situation to yours, and I would probably opt for keeping the relationship as it is (for now) until you're 100% sure that there's a possibility of him liking you romantically. If you're already sure, then great; but if you're not then maybe wait a little bit.
Just remember that you hurting isn't good (that probably sounds really obvious). It's not okay for you to be hurting because of this situation.
Maybe I'm wrong but you seem to be quite happy with this touchy-feely relationship. There's always going to be reasons to do nothing, and there's always going to be reasons to do something, but at the end of the day, it's your choice mate.
I hope this helps and I'd love it if you messaged me and tell me what happens.

 

Any updates?

 

Your story has opened up my eyes a lol my situation. See I love reading these threads because It makes me feel like I'm not alone when it comes to crushing on a "straight" guy. And I see similarities with my situation. I think... No Ik he loves you more than even he knows. The things he does for you is insanely boarder line relationship. He literally told you that he is searching for a relationship and used an excuse to mask it. I think he thinks he has been straight all his life and can't see himself kissing a guy because it's such a foreign thought.

My thoughts are getting jumbled cause I have a lot to say lol but I garentee once he comes to the realization that he may like you more than a brother than you true relationship will start. And tbh I don't think a kiss will hurt you.

My brother, I call him my brother cause we are that close, is the same way. I remember when we first started talking I thought he was definitely gay or bi. Like he would constantly stare at me, he hates when I leave his side, touchy feely, he almost knows I love him more than a brother cause I tell him everyday, and he has told me on seperate occasions he would date me.... If either of us was THE OTHER GENDER. That is the key to me!! I think you can say if you were a female you two guys would be dating right now! That's why I think without a doubt he is in love with he just hasn't come to the realization.

 

Your writing is so good, you should write a book on your love life, not kidding!

Oh wow thats a major update. he probably reached his breaking point.He must have felt THE connection between you guys. But like what did you guys discussed outside? How are you feeling? There must be so many things going through your head right now.

 

That sounds hella deep tbh! You guys shared a great moment! Love that man.

 

He is slowly letting his guard down, take it day by day. I wont get in to any details but is he like a major player or more on THE verge of breakthrough?

I'm so intrigued by your story, you guys are like insepreable, like velcro. I completely agree you guys act like a couple. I even think if one of you hooks up with another person the other will be pretty hurt. A lot of times I see on here stories which will have no happy ending but you have a pretty big chance of a happy ending. I feel like you guys would catch a grenade for each other based on your stories. Like i always say actions speak louder than words. Like he always does THE cutest things for you. Like wake you up and take you out for dinner. Does he also brings gifts when he comes to town?

You got his trust!

P.s sorry for my bad english, i'm from THE netherlands.

 

Sounds great manso happy for yall two.

 

I think he will. He won't be able to stay away!

 

I think he is just grasping all of what transpired the day before but he isnt purpposely avoiding you because he doent like. I think he loves you too much to stay away from you too long. I left out of state for four days and didnt tell my crush and he texted me before I got back that he missed me and wanted to hear my voice. LOve is a crazy thing man.

 

Oh shut up hahah I thought he was this big ass NFL player with lots of money haha. It's now even more cute he pays for dinner everytime!

He is probably shocked that you were able to open him up about his life. Maybe he has to digest what happend that night, so Maybe thats why he didnt text? Or he is also waiting for you to text!

 

Aah give him some him some time, he probably doesnt know what to do with you!

Oh so one more question is he also very protective of you?

 

Omg he is definitely into you. Like he has your back so much! He is even willing to put his hands on someone. This is just another confirmation that he goes an extra mile for you!

Like put it in perspective, have you ever had a friend that acts like him? No because this man is in love with you! I Will bet 100 euros on that. He does everything a boyfriend does, this aint no bromance.