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MtF Vulnerability & Protection

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by AudreyB, May 31, 2014.

  1. Kat 5

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    Use one of these.


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    This has turned out to be a great and very educational thread. Thanks everyone for arming me with knowledge (if nothing else). :slight_smile:

    Will come back later with another post as I have some questions.
     
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    It seems like self defense is practically illegal in canada. :frowning2: I think we are allowed to open carry a knife though.

    Anyone have any ideas for me? :/
     
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    Sometimes works ^.^

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    :lol:
    If I did that the guy would probably grab me and throw me to the ground.
     
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    Is pepper spray illegal in Canada, too? If it is, you can just take a small perfume spray bottle and fill it up with hot sause.

    Keep it in your pocket, and if someone gets in your personal space, SPRAY 'EM!
     
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    If you are using it for self defense it is. Your attacker could potentially sue you for spraying them... so I feel like a perfume spray bottle would have the same problem. :frowning2:

    You can get bear spray, but you could not use it for self defense against a person.
     
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    Tasers all round? :slight_smile:
     
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    shocking idea~

    Sorry i just had too XD
     
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    What about self-defense/martial arts classes?
     
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    I should look into them. :slight_smile:
     
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    pepper spray and handguns are not allowed for self defense purposes in Canada. in theory they are but you will never get a Authorization to Carry for self defense and pepper spray is prohibited though bear spray isn't you will be charged with possession of a prohibited weapon if you use it on a human, even an animal like a rapist.:tantrum:

    improvised weapons and weapons of opportunity would be your best bet up here. wish the hell we had something like the second amendment.:bang:

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    there as a guy in Toronto who did something like this and was charged with "administering a noxious substance" based on the specific circumstances of this case i believe he was acquitted.
     
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    Be careful what you wish for! The second amendment is a double edged sword (btw we are allowed most swords here lol ) and you'll have idiots open carrying ar15/sks/ak47 at Timmy Hos.

    I do wish you had more efficient self defense options in Canada. Are things like retractable batons allowed? The mace not being allowed seems so weird to me. The weapon I posted is a full size combat pistol and other than being harder to conceal, it's fully legal.
     
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    Actually, you want them to know that you have a weapon. Extreme discouragement tactic.
     
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    Well, as I mentioned, I'm not really a gun girl. Moreover, I favor small, clutch-sized handbags, so no way something like that is going to fit, unless I leave my keys, cellphone, wallet, lipstick, compact, etc., at home, which is to say, no way. :lol:


    Now we're talking. :thumbsup: Just looked this up and I can maybe get away with tucking this into my handbag, as backup if nothing else.

    I have a Bass Pro Shop only a few miles from my job. I'm going to stop in during lunch this week and see if they have this. :eusa_clap

    Yeah, had I had any experience being out as a female prior to this past Thursday night, I probably would have thought of asking one or two of the other girls to walk me to my car. A rather burly gentleman happened to walk out of the restaurant at the same time as me, and although he ended up heading in a different direction, it raised a few non-existent hairs on the back of my neck turning my back toward him to walk to my car. Had I been with the girls, I wouldn't have given it a second thought. So noting this one down for the future.

    The cellphone idea also sounds good. Gotta try to remember to enable my cellphone flash before I leave the public venue next time and have it in my hand as I walk out. (Although with handbag in one hand and cell in the other, doesn't leave me much room for keys or a quick grab for the pepper spray/push dagger. :confused:)

    Heavens, all 130 lbs. of me as a weapon. Run and flee, hairy beast muggers of the world. :lol:

    Then again, e=mc2, so maybe you could teach me some fast moves. :slight_smile:

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    Good point.
     
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    Wear a shirt saying: I have a gun. Don't try anything funny.
     
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    collapsible batons are prohibited for all except Law enforcement.
    i wouldn't care if a guy was carrying a long gun in Tims as long as i have a defense tool as well and if most have them the chances of a moron trying something is greatly diminished. More guns really does equal less crime
     
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    Being known as armed isn't necessarily a good thing either! An attacker can work to seize the weapon, or attack you first out of a group to neutralize the threat.

    I actually carry that on my body. There are holsters like thunderwear that can conceal a full frame pistol on you. I'm 5'10" and I'm losing weight but even at my lightest in my low one forties, I was able to conceal this.

    Since you're not a gun girl, I'd look into pepper spray and a retractable baton. LINK