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Is sexuality a choice?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by CyanChachki, Jul 17, 2014.

  1. PurpleDream

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    My parents think it is. Some of my friends think it is. Most straight people I know thinks it is.

    But personally, I think it's not. Having a certain sexuality is just how people are innated to be, not by choice.
    People having to defend their sexuality due to harassment, embarrassment, etc. and deciding to be interested in a different sexual orientations, then yes it's a choice for them to choose not to express their innate selves, but to follow social trends.
     
  2. Pie

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    Nope, certainly not a choice.
    And if it were, why would anyone choose to be gay/bisexual when you can be straight and have a much easier life?
     
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    No, and yes. I am physically attracted to women. But, I get turned on by guys too cuz I like having orgasms. So, I choose to have sex with men sometimes cuz it feels good.
     
  5. Wuggums47

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    I chose to be gay at the same time I chose how tall I would be, the color of my hair and eyes, and the functionality of my pancreas.