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I think I might have finally figured it out

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by RebeccaK, May 9, 2019.

  1. RebeccaK

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    Hi everyone

    I posted this thread in june https://forum.emptyclosets.com/inde...-heres-why-i-think-thats-a-good-thing.472881/ and since then I've figured some things out. I can not stress enough how important it is to get out in the real world and experiment, socialize and reflect if you can.
    I did just that and here I am. I went to pride. Last week I went on a date with a woman I met on a dating app. My first real date. We kissed, even though I was scared to do it in public at first, we went to a more secluded place and I kissed her goodbye. We're meeting next week for a second date at her place. And how do I feel? Well. I'm not gonna label myself but I like women. Sexual attraction isn't instant for me though, it takes some time for me to evaluate how I feel for someone but I know I find her attractive. I'm gonna move to a bigger more accepting city this year and start dating women regularly. Not interested in men and haven't been since I understood my attraction to women. I never thought I'd get to this point and I'm happy. So the message I want to give you all is for most of you thinks will be okay in the end. Whatever that means for you.

    /RebeccaK
     
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    Nice update! Congrats! :slight_smile:
     
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    Good message and congratulations.
     
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    Once we accept ourselves, things usually get easier. Being honest with ourselves and living authentically is the best for us and those around us. Take care.
     
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    Once we accept ourselves, things usually get easier. Being honest with ourselves and living authentically is the best for us and those around us. Take care.
     
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    Yay for kissing!
     
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    Yay congratulations.
     
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    I remember your early post on here. :slight_smile: Congratulations to you for finding happiness!