Hubby has just announced he's taken Wednesday to Friday off work to spend time with me. No consultation or thought for my commitments etc. I have to tell him. I can't keep doing this. I feel like I'm going utterly mad. But I'm scared as hell. I know I need to do it. I've decided to go down the letter route initially as I'm scared of his initial reaction. My plan is to take the kids to school, go back home hand him that letter and then tell him he can phone me when he's ready and go out. He's going to be very angry and in denial. I need to remember that I count too though. I'm so scared but I know this is my opportunity. Wish me luck.