Well, I did it...I came out to my H last night. The conversation went surprisingly well...given the situation. He’s hurt but he was also sensitive to my feelings and acknowledging how difficult this must be for me. We ended the night with him saying he just wants me to be happy and I need to tell him what I want. I wasn’t able to communicate a clear decision but we will continue to talk this week. This morning he was very distant and understandably so.... I will say, I now understand the whole “you’ll know when it’s time” The difficult part for me was trying tell him how I know I’m attracted to women because it is basically admitting sexual attraction toward others so I sorta glossed over the details. How did you explain that part? I know it’s going to come up again. When he asked exactly how I knew I basically told him when I thought a woman was flirting with me briefly if made me feel funny and stir something inside that I wasn’t aware of and continued to shift from there. But I couldn’t go into further detail because I feel bad describing the details of how I know I’m attracted to women.