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How would you describe your preferred role in bed?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Destin, Mar 19, 2018.

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What is your preferred role in bed?

  1. Top

    10 vote(s)
    15.2%
  2. Bottom

    15 vote(s)
    22.7%
  3. Versatile

    31 vote(s)
    47.0%
  4. Other (please explain)

    10 vote(s)
    15.2%
  1. Destin

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    Hopefully this isn't too personal of a question, I'm just wondering what most people are into, and what you like about that role?

    If you haven't actually tried it yet, what do you think you would like?

    I set the poll so it doesn't display your name when you vote - so no one has to know if you don't want them to, they will only know if you post.

    I'm versatile, which means liking both top and bottom. It's nice to change things up and add variety to the experience sometimes.
     
  2. europeanguy

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    Sleeping



    I'm a forever virgin haha so of course
     
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    I'd like to be versatile if I ever get to try anything. Why not try both? It gives me more options sexually.
     
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    You won't be a forever virgin - unless that's what you want I guess but if not don't worry it'll happen one day when you meet the right person, there is nothing wrong with waiting until you're ready.
     
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    Versatile, although bottoming has just a little preference. There is something appealing about just focusing on pleasing the other person instead of controlling everything.
     
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    Combo of never getting the chance and the fact that physical contact is extremely undesirable so I'm good.

    I thought sleeping was pretty funny though
     
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    I'm pretty sure I'd like both as I fantasize fairly equally, but I'm also pretty certain I'll never find out. I don't really see any need to stick to a particular "role" though and I have no doubt I could experience pleasure with either.
     
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    Why do you think that? You seem like a really nice guy and I'm sure you could find someone to try it with, it just takes putting yourself out there and meeting people until you find someone cool.
     
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    I'm 31, a virgin, unattractive, closeted, and with very little social life. It also doesn't help that it's very rare for me to really like someone and casual sex just doesn't appeal to me much. Thanks though, you're sweet.
     
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    I think that I will like bottoming more, though definitely curious to try both positions once I find someone.
     
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    Unattractiveness and closeted-ness can be fixed. Age is not a barrier to sex in the least and being a virgin is also not an issue for most people.
     
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    A lot of gay men would describe themselves as versatile and it doesn't surprise me that the majority (so far) have voted that way. Amongst those who have a preference, you're likely to get more bottoms than tops, but that doesn't mean tops are a very small minority. Most of the polls I've seen have around a quarter of guys describing themselves as a top.

    I have a definite preference, but I'm not telling. :zipper_mouth: I did vote in the poll though.
     
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    I am with Patrick on this one! lol
     
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    I prefer the sitting up watching videos on my iPad position. Sometimes I'll have a sip of tea. Sometimes I'll look up and watch Andrew Zimmerman eat a spider or a sea slug. Pretty hot night I think. But that's only because my air conditioner is broken until tomorrow. I'll eventually go to sleep. The only sex I'll be having is in my dreams. I call it the astro position.
     
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    Hahahaha sleep well
     
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    Versatile, but I'll also say there are many things that I enjoy more than anal sex
     
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    Same here.
     
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    Voted others. I havent done it yet really. Though I thought before im vers with preference of being top then now vers with preference of being bottom. Maybe it will change if I really done it.
     
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    vers butt definitely more bottom.
    We’re all LGBT here, no need to be shy. No one is judging you here.
     
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    I don’t know for sure yet, but I suspect that I’m a bottom. I get really turned on by the fantasy that I surrender to a hot guy who overpowers me and has his way with me.....:fingers_crossed: