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Gay furry sex pics found on 15 yr old sons phone

Discussion in 'For Parents and Family Members of LGBT People' started by Misscob, Mar 3, 2017.

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  1. Mitchell

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    After reading this, my big remark is that he didn't go out and deny it and claim this wasn't true. You're doing something right if he didn't run out of the room at the start of the conversation. Might potentially reacting very harshly change his view on being so open with you?
     
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    I would basically not talk about it with him, your son is probably embarrassed enough. Just tell him to be safe online.

    I have some fetishes myself but I would never save porn onto my phone, your kid has balls of steel.
     
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    This was my fear as a young lad who was discovering myself. Best to not even talk about it because they will probably deny it and get more creative hiding it.

    Never saved it on my phone; only went to websites to look at it.

    Talking about it would just make him not trust you more. Going through a teens device is an invasion of privacy.

    People are going to develop fetishes regardless and shunning it would just cause more mental anguish. The furry community isn't bad (it does have it bad sides obv and toxic people but just like real life). It's a good community for LGBT people to meet individuals of similar interests. It's a welcoming and safe (to an extent but anything can happen) community that welcomes all.

    Furries already have enough hate on the internet, they don't need more from their parents tbh.
     
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    I've never heard of furry or anything like it, but from what you've described, is it possible that this is his way of dipping his toe into gay porn to see if it appeals to him? Either way, I would not bring that up with him again. But you may want to think about asking him if he thinks he might be gay. That way you can set him up with a support network. My thinking is that he probably is gay but may not be fully ready to come out just yet. I have asked my son over the years if he thinks he might be gay and at first he denied it. Then he would say "I'm not sure" and finally, last week, he admitted that he was gay. It's a process. Just be as accepting as possible and find ways to work your acceptance into regular conversation so he'll feel safe when he's finally ready to share his truth.
     
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