I'm seeking (and lucky enough to be in) a mostly full-on relationship in conjunction with my marriage. I would not characterize this as an open marriage... but as a marriage that allows a certain openness? My marriage remains loving, whole and profoundly important to me. My husband is an incredibly awesome man, and I love him with my entire heart. He knows about and has worked with me to figure out how to integrate the love I have for another woman into our reality. He lets me be free... and because of that, I feel like our love is even stronger in an unexpected way. Loving a person in addition to your spouse does not necessarily mean the marriage has to end, or even shift to a place that's somehow less. With a lot of communication, effort, and admittedly, a super strong marriage to start, it can mean a life with so much more.