Are you seeking a fling or a full-on relationship, outside of your marriage? For two months, I've convinced myself that all I wanted was a fling. Just to try and be with a woman (which, I very much desire) while figuring out my marriage to my husband. But when I think of being with a woman, it's not only the sex I want...I want the damn feelings and emotions, too. I wanna make love with a woman (total opposite of what I want and have w/my husband). WTH. I want a full-on relationship, which is a no-go while being married. I feel kinda..sick to my stomach. Am I still in denial? WTF?!?!?! It's soooo not a fling I want. I want all of it and this has hit me like a ton of bricks. :bang: I'm just curious as to others out there, whom are married. Are you seeking a fling or relationship?