Feeling really gay?

So how common is it for bisexuals to have a flip in interest? Because for like over a week now I've been feeling a lot like a lesbian. I'm super craving a woman and men are kinda boring to me right now. The hard part with this is I'm not out so I don't have the option to fully indulge my taste for women because I can't talk about it with anyone but my sister. She's straight though and she doesn't relate to my feelings so I think after a while she gets kinda tired of hearing about it, but I have no one else in real life I can tell. So basically, are any queer girls up for chatting about the ladies? I'm really rethinking this whole closeted thing. At some point I am going to want to date a girl and all this will have to come out. And do other bi people have this shift in attraction often?

 

Cool! I do think I am really excited. I know I am not a lesbian since I will never stop finding guys attractive, but men are just not what I really want at this particular moment.

 

Awesome! So what kind of girls are you into? I think right now I'm feeling really into girls because I have a huge crush on a certain celebrity and she's all I can think about.

 

That's interesting. I tend to crush on celebrities more than real people. Maybe because they're safe and idealized? I agree about the protective aspect, the funny thing for me is I like to be both protector and protected at the same time. I am a mother hen myself but I would like someone who I could switch roles with and who could also take care of me. I don't like super masculine or super femme, for guys or girls. My current crush is actually so well known it's kinda embarrassing because I am so NOT the only person who is obsessed with her. I feel like kinda a stereotype for liking her lol. But I just do. If you have taken a glance at my signature you'll probably already know who I am talking about.

 

I am probably the opposite. A greater number of men look good to me, but when I do like a girl it's very intense.

 

Lol yeah I was talking about Shane. I just, love her so much. And you bring up an interesting point. With women I am okay being more submissive some of the time, but with men I have to be the dominant one. I basically like to be the opposite I guess of what people expect. I just don't feel comfortable being the "woman" with a man, but I am more okay about submitting to another woman.

 

Truthfully though, in an ideal relationship, I would like both of us, regardless of gender, to be versatile and able to switch things up. I don't want to be stuck in a role.

 

No problem. That's interesting. I was under the impression it was harder to find a man who preferred the submissive role. Glad to see there are people who like all kinds of different things.

 

I think I am just more comfortable submitting to a woman because I figure she would know what to do? I feel like someone who knows how the female body works would know how to make things comfortable and enjoyable so I could feel more relaxed just letting things unfold?

 

Well, we exist for sure. Obviously stereotypes are not always true, but I think in general the less feminine a woman acts, or the more dominant her personality the more likely she wold be interested in a quieter, more passive man.

 

Interesting. I like feminine men who also LOOK feminine in appearance.