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Feeling really gay?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Love4Ever, May 22, 2018.

  1. Love4Ever

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    I live in a small town too! My only problem is it's hard to get out and meet people because I live at home and I don't drive. I am working on that, but until I transfer schools next spring I am kinda stuck. :frowning2: So right now I am focusing on getting ready and preparing to leave and start my life. I want to get a summer job and hopefully have better luck next year. I think I am going to have to just get through this year and hope for better things. There is a GSA at my new school that I plan on joining. I won't be living at home so I will have the freedom to join without my parents knowing. There I hope things can get started for me.
     
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    College? That would probably be a great place to meet lgbt people.
     
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    Yeah, I am in college right now. I'm at a community college and will be transferring soon to a four year school.
     
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    I live in a conservative area though so that makes things tricky.
     
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    Me too! I went to community college and transferred. I will be finished up in December. It’s exciting. I know how it feels living in a conservative town. You should private message me. So we can talk about school! People don’t understand the struggle lol
     
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    I’m new to this site, I don’t know if I am doing something wrong but it won’t let me message you. I saw your post on my profile but I don’t know how to post on yours?
     
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    We can just talk on your wall if you like. You can just respond back to me on your profile. :slight_smile:
     
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    So I am going for in Bachelors in HR Management and Business Administration. I go part-time online. It’s getting really tough since I’m in my final classes! What are you going for?
     
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    Well right now as of the moment I am an English/History double major. But I might switch out or add a minor or something in film. My ultimate goals are to write my own books and produce/direct/write/act in my own films or tv shows. I have a big interest particularly in British history, and literature and have also toyed with the idea of freelance writing, doing my own research for books on various historical topics or working as a consultant for a film company. Basically, I want to work with stories, where art, history, literature and film intersect to reach people. I'm not exactly sure what I want to do with my life yet if I'm being honest. I'm still figuring it out. Sometimes I feel like my life is kinda a mess, future career wise, sexually wise, everything, and I'm so confused and have no idea what to do so I'm kinda just going with the flow right now.
     
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    That's cool! I wish I was a good painter! I took a class once and I wasn't very good lol. I love game of thrones. I read all the books and saw part of the series but didn't get back into it. Maybe one of these days I'll finally finish it. What kind of books, tv shows, or movies do you like?
     
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    ASOIAF :slight_smile: those are the only books I’ve read for the past 2 years. I’m on my 3rd time through. I’m really into West World right now. And...I am a Trekkie. I watch Star Trek pretty much everyday. I’m definitely a nerd :slight_smile:
     
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    I am too! Right now it's m watching, Versailles, and The L Word. Totally unrelated shows but I'm enjoying them both. I have two books going, but this week I've been busy so I haven't read them all that much.
     
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    I watched the L word a long time ago. I might have to check it out again.
     
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    You should! I am really liking it right now. Did you have a favorite character?
     
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    I don’t even remember really. Probably Bette or Shane.
     
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    OMG! Shane! I absolutely love her! Sorry, I kinda have a mega crush. :blush:
     
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    Haha! I can’t blame you.
     
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    Thanks. :slight_smile: If I may ask, (you don't have to tell me if you don't want to), your avatar says you are out to some people? What are you out as? I only ask because I am thinking about coming out as bi to my mom and dad and I don't know whether I should. I know they would not care about my orientation, they have said before they just want me and my sister to be happy, and I have gay family members who are out and proud. I just am afraid they won't get what being bi means. We don't have any bi people in my family and I just don't know if they'll be confused. I guess I am just looking for advice on how to come out to people? I don't really know how to do this? If you had any experience it would be much appreciated. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi ladies.
    Sorry I’m jumping in on your thread here.
    I first saw the L Word about 13 years ago and for me it was all about Carmen #sigh#. I swear to god there was actually little hearts flying out of my eyeballs lol
    If you’ve only just started watching it then you may not have come across her yet. In fact the first episode I ever saw was the Shane / Carmen lap dance...bloody hell...
    They’re bringing the show back you know. They’re making it now and as far as I’m aware Shane will be in it. Not Carmen though :tired_face:
     
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