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Do you prefer to be big spoon or little spoon? (question about cuddling)

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Lawrence, Apr 25, 2018.

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Do you prefer to be big spoon or little spoon? (question about cuddling)

  1. Big spoon

    10 vote(s)
    20.8%
  2. Both pretty much equally

    23 vote(s)
    47.9%
  3. Little spoon

    14 vote(s)
    29.2%
  4. Do not want

    1 vote(s)
    2.1%
  1. Love4Ever

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    I don't think this makes you cold or distant. I would like to spoon for a little while, but I see it as something to do while we lie awake. When it's time to go to sleep I would roll over and we would have our own space. I can't sleep too close to someone else either, I get hot and I need to be able to move.
     
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    It's funny, I'm huge and she's probably literally half my size, but we do both fairly equally. When I'm little spoon she's more like a jetpack than a spoon tho :laughing::laughing:
     
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    At least I'm not the only one who thinks this way. I agree with you that it's something to do while awake, then roll over to go to sleep.
     
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    Anything goes really. I just wanna cuddle.
     
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    I’ve never been in a relationship but I think I’d prefer to be the big spoon.
     
    #25 Hawk, May 12, 2018
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    It depends on the size of my cup or mug.
     
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    Big spoon, I'm bigger than my boyfriend in all senses of the word. I've tried little spoon but it's uncomfortable for him, so I always end up in the big spoon role.
     
    #27 Miaplacidus, May 12, 2018
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